Author Topic: Question regarding condom slips off. (Read 16428 times)

lolz987 · « **on:** August 06, 2012, 11:13:12 am »

What would makes the condom slip off? Explain to me can a condom completely slips off, during withdrawal the condom is not on the penis. My english isn't good and please explain to me all of condom slips encounter, thanks. Also what kind of incident of condom slipping off will encounter hiv infection?

Andy Velez · « **Reply #1 on:** August 06, 2012, 02:29:11 pm »

Condoms do slip off sometimes. Sometimes depending on how tightly it fits your penis is can slip during the motion of intercourse.

When withdrawing it's often a good idea to hold the backend of the condom as you pull out to prevent it from coming off then.

And make sure that you are using condoms which fit your size properly.

lolz987 · « **Reply #2 on:** August 06, 2012, 02:33:31 pm »

What if when I was performing an anal sex, I was the insertive partner. When we do this for about 1-2 minutes, the condom is not on my penis. Whether the condom was hanging out of her of inside of her, what are my risks?

lolz987 · « **Reply #3 on:** August 06, 2012, 02:35:14 pm »

A lil bit information, I was the insertive partner (bottom) so she was doing it for me.
I am uncircumcised and I do feel pain (fast fucking) (Gel applied) does this mean that the condom was still on my penis?

Andy Velez · « **Reply #4 on:** August 06, 2012, 02:44:12 pm »

Quote from: lolz987 on August 06, 2012, 02:35:14 pm

A lil bit information, I was the insertive partner (bottom) so she was doing it for me.
I am uncircumcised and I do feel pain (fast fucking) (Gel applied) does this mean that the condom was still on my penis?

Since you are the one putting his penis inside of the other person, you are the INSERTIVE partner. Feeling discomfort has nothing to do with whether the condom is on or not. When you pulled out was the condom on you? And make sure you always use a water-based lubricant for the condom.

lolz987 · « **Reply #5 on:** August 06, 2012, 02:46:45 pm »

Hi Andy and thanks for your reply. I hope you did see this post "What if when I was performing an anal sex, I was the insertive partner. When we do this for about 1-2 minutes, the condom is not on my penis. Whether the condom was hanging out of her of inside of her, what are my risks?"

The condom was not on my penis after I pulled out.

lolz987 · « **Reply #6 on:** August 06, 2012, 03:00:02 pm »

Does 1-2 minutes anal sex qualify as brief anal? Including deepest fucking.

Andy Velez · « **Reply #7 on:** August 06, 2012, 03:30:30 pm »

If you are saying that your condom slipped off during a couple of minutes when you continued intercourse without wearing a condom, that does qualify as a risk.

But a low level one. The condom protected you until it slipped off.

You should get tested. You can get an initial result at 6 weeks. I expect you to test negative if that's what happened. Re-test at 3 months for a conclusive result. And yes, if you initially test negative I expect you will continue to test negative again.

lolz987 · « **Reply #8 on:** August 06, 2012, 03:37:36 pm »

Hey, I'm posting this is just to let you know (Ann).
While I was the insertive partner, and the receptive partner is doing the fuck job for me (anal). My penis went soft, what would happen to the slipped condom? Was I unprotected or what? And thanks for the reply Andy.

Andy Velez · « **Reply #9 on:** August 06, 2012, 05:52:38 pm »

It's hard to follow your remarks and you seem to be making this more complicated than it has to be with adding further details that make it unclear as to what actually happened to you.

Whether soft or hard if you had a condom on during intercourse then you were protected.

lolz987 · « **Reply #10 on:** August 06, 2012, 11:47:52 pm »

I remember, after withdrawal, the condom was not on my penis...

lolz987 · « **Reply #11 on:** August 07, 2012, 12:24:44 am »

@ Ann

"Having a condom slip off as you withdraw is not low risk, it's NO risk. You were protected while you were inside the vagina and that is what's important. "

But mine was anal and there was 2 times withdrawal. What I meant is, the first withdrawal was some kind of rest... then we did it for 2nd time... Not really know if the condom has slipped off in the first time and I was unprotected for the 2nd time!

Ann · « **Reply #12 on:** August 07, 2012, 04:16:34 am »

lolz,

If you are not sure the condom was on you the second time, then you should test. As the insertive partner this is a low risk and I would not expect you to test positive, but the only way to know for sure is to test. The insertive partner is at a lower risk regardless of whether you are talking about anal or vaginal intercourse.

You need to learn from this and start paying more attention to your condom.

The earliest you should test is at six weeks. The vast majority of people who have actually been infected will seroconvert and test positive by six weeks, with the average time to seroconversion being only 22 days.

A six week negative is highly unlikely to change, but must be confirmed at the three month point.

Ann

lolz987 · « **Reply #13 on:** August 07, 2012, 11:13:34 am »

Hi Ann and thanks for the reply. Do you think that I was protected before the 1st withdrawal encounter and also for the 2nd time. And also why do you expect me to test negative? Do people end up with positive under my circumstances?

lolz987 · « **Reply #14 on:** August 07, 2012, 11:30:05 am »

Dunno if my partner was telling me the truth. You guys judge her. (This doesn't make any difference but comments would actually makes me feel better.)

I used different number to text the escort that I used to.
"Hey are you providing service?" Me.
"Yes I am, wanna meet up?" Her.
"Are you HIV positive or negative?" Me.
"Definitely negative!" Her.
"I'm fine if you are positive or negative, tell me the truth." Me.
"Idiot!! If you got no believe then go find another escort! Stupid!!!" Her.
"Okay last question, where are you from" Me.

No more reply from her since then. Also, do respond to my previous post too.

lolz987 · « **Reply #15 on:** August 07, 2012, 11:31:09 am »

A sex worker is always love money and they would do whatever for sake of money. This worker doesn't seem to be love money instead of her reputation. $:-\$

RapidRod · « **Reply #16 on:** August 07, 2012, 12:12:37 pm »

Reread the replies you were given.

Andy Velez · « **Reply #17 on:** August 07, 2012, 01:02:38 pm »

Quote from: Ann on August 07, 2012, 04:16:34 am

lolz,

If you are not sure the condom was on you the second time, then you should test. As the insertive partner this is a low risk and I would not expect you to test positive, but the only way to know for sure is to test. The insertive partner is at a lower risk regardless of whether you are talking about anal or vaginal intercourse.

You need to learn from this and start paying more attention to your condom.

The earliest you should test is at six weeks. The vast majority of people who have actually been infected will seroconvert and test positive by six weeks, with the average time to seroconversion being only 22 days.

A six week negative is highly unlikely to change, but must be confirmed at the three month point.

Ann

There is nothing more to add at this point. If the condom was off during the second time then get tested.

The risk is less for the insertive partner. And since it was only one time, the likelihood is that you will test negative.

There is nothing more we can say about your situation.

lolz987 · « **Reply #18 on:** August 07, 2012, 02:19:32 pm »

Hey thanks for relpy guys. Why is my risk is low even though that I had exposure?

(God bless me please.)

Andy Velez · « **Reply #19 on:** August 07, 2012, 03:23:40 pm »

Quote from: Ann on August 07, 2012, 04:16:34 am

lolz,

If you are not sure the condom was on you the second time, then you should test. As the insertive partner this is a low risk and I would not expect you to test positive, but the only way to know for sure is to test. The insertive partner is at a lower risk regardless of whether you are talking about anal or vaginal intercourse.

You need to learn from this and start paying more attention to your condom.

The earliest you should test is at six weeks. The vast majority of people who have actually been infected will seroconvert and test positive by six weeks, with the average time to seroconversion being only 22 days.

A six week negative is highly unlikely to change, but must be confirmed at the three month point.

Ann

We are not going to continue an endless round with you about this issue. Your situation has been evaluated and re-evaluated. There's nothing more to say. Test if you want to be sure and confirm your negative status.

If you continue to return with more what ifs you are going to find yourself getting a Time Out from the site for 28 days. Consider yourself warned.

lolz987 · « **Reply #20 on:** August 16, 2012, 11:36:12 am »

Sore throat, flu, fever, headache, coughing has came to me... The incident was happened in 1 August, possible symptoms?

Ann · « **Reply #21 on:** August 16, 2012, 02:10:38 pm »

Lolz,

Re-read your entire thread. Our answers are not going to change and there's nothing new to add.

Ann

lolz987 · « **Reply #22 on:** August 24, 2012, 01:51:43 pm »

Again Ann, do you expect me to test negative?

Ann · « **Reply #23 on:** August 25, 2012, 04:49:31 am »

lolz,

Yes, I fully expect you to test negative, but you must test at the appropriate time to be sure.

Ann

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