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Author Topic: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?  (Read 58427 times)

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Offline djayp

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #150 on: April 30, 2011, 12:46:41 pm »
i was really horny & really dumb one night. I've accepted it and am moving on
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Offline mecch

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #151 on: April 30, 2011, 07:18:52 pm »
I've related to some of the more "human nature" explanations in the most recent posts.
“From each, according to his ability; to each, according to his need” 1875 K Marx

Offline elf

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #152 on: May 02, 2011, 09:45:24 am »
Summary:
Most of us acquired the virus in a relationship or immediately after the break up.
Love is mean.  :P

Offline woodshere

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #153 on: May 02, 2011, 10:25:44 am »
Summary:
Most of us acquired the virus in a relationship or immediately after the break up.
Love is mean.  :P

If your definition of a relationship is a one night stand that lasts anywhere from 15 mins to a few hours I agree.
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Offline denb45

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #154 on: May 02, 2011, 10:31:13 am »
Summary:
Most of us acquired the virus in a relationship or immediately after the break up.
Love is mean.  :P

And just what does that mean? I didn't get teh AIDS that way  ::)  speak for yourself  ::)
« Last Edit: May 02, 2011, 10:37:22 am by denb45 »
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #155 on: May 02, 2011, 11:07:35 am »
If your definition of a relationship is a one night stand that lasts anywhere from 15 mins to a few hours I agree.

Hey, why not -- it seems many queers think anything longer than 3 months is so "monogamous" that they can throw at their rubbers.
"I’ve slept with enough men to know that I’m not gay"

Offline denb45

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #156 on: May 02, 2011, 11:10:59 am »
Hey, why not -- it seems many queers think anything longer than 3 months is so "monogamous" that they can throw at their rubbers.

I've been monogamous for the last 17 yrs. well maybe during times of Lent, I wasn't  ;D
"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #157 on: May 02, 2011, 11:14:25 am »
I've been monogamous for the last 17 yrs. well maybe during times of Lent, I wasn't  ;D

Going by some of your posts here I'm never quite sure, but I guess you're always just joking.
"I’ve slept with enough men to know that I’m not gay"

Offline denb45

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #158 on: May 02, 2011, 11:18:47 am »
Going by some of your posts here I'm never quite sure, but I guess you're always just joking.

Well let me see here?

Do I have a Manhunt or Adam 4 Adam profile? NO I don't, why on earth would I need that?

I'm I a big ole flirt? YES I'm

Do I have wicked since of humor round here?  YES I do

so, are you sure NOW  ;D  OH wait don't answer that one, didn't you mother WARN you of deviants like me  :D

 :-*
« Last Edit: May 02, 2011, 11:21:38 am by denb45 »
"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

Offline gonzo

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Re: So Why Didn't "Safe Sex" Work With You?
« Reply #159 on: May 04, 2011, 09:56:25 am »
I knew the risks, yet 20+ years ago I felt this could never happen to me.



diagnosed in 1990, current Meds: Truvada/Reyataz/Norvir

 


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