Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
March 19, 2024, 12:34:28 am

Login with username, password and session length


Members
Stats
  • Total Posts: 772784
  • Total Topics: 66296
  • Online Today: 244
  • Online Ever: 5484
  • (June 18, 2021, 11:15:29 pm)
Users Online
Users: 1
Guests: 222
Total: 223

Welcome


Welcome to the POZ Community Forums, a round-the-clock discussion area for people with HIV/AIDS, their friends/family/caregivers, and others concerned about HIV/AIDS.  Click on the links below to browse our various forums; scroll down for a glance at the most recent posts; or join in the conversation yourself by registering on the left side of this page.

Privacy Warning:  Please realize that these forums are open to all, and are fully searchable via Google and other search engines. If you are HIV positive and disclose this in our forums, then it is almost the same thing as telling the whole world (or at least the World Wide Web). If this concerns you, then do not use a username or avatar that are self-identifying in any way. We do not allow the deletion of anything you post in these forums, so think before you post.

  • The information shared in these forums, by moderators and members, is designed to complement, not replace, the relationship between an individual and his/her own physician.

  • All members of these forums are, by default, not considered to be licensed medical providers. If otherwise, users must clearly define themselves as such.

  • Forums members must behave at all times with respect and honesty. Posting guidelines, including time-out and banning policies, have been established by the moderators of these forums. Click here for “Do I Have HIV?” posting guidelines. Click here for posting guidelines pertaining to all other POZ community forums.

  • We ask all forums members to provide references for health/medical/scientific information they provide, when it is not a personal experience being discussed. Please provide hyperlinks with full URLs or full citations of published works not available via the Internet. Additionally, all forums members must post information which are true and correct to their knowledge.

  • Product advertisement—including links; banners; editorial content; and clinical trial, study or survey participation—is strictly prohibited by forums members unless permission has been secured from POZ.

To change forums navigation language settings, click here (members only), Register now

Para cambiar sus preferencias de los foros en español, haz clic aquí (sólo miembros), Regístrate ahora

Finished Reading This? You can collapse this or any other box on this page by clicking the symbol in each box.

Welcome to Do I Have HIV?

Welcome to the "Do I Have HIV?" POZ forum.

This special section of the POZ forum is for individuals who have concerns about whether or not they are HIV positive. Individuals are permitted to post up to three questions or responses in this forum.

Ongoing participation in the "Do I Have HIV?" forum (posting more than three questions or responses) requires a paid subscription, with secure payments made via PayPal.

A seven-day subscription is $9.99, a 30-day subscription is $14.99 and a 90-day subscription is $24.99.

Anyone who needs to post more than three messages in the "Do I Have HIV?" forum -- including past, present and future POZ Forums members -- will need to subscribe, with secure payments made via PayPal.

There is no charge to read threads in the "Do I Have HIV?" forum, nor will there be a charge for participating in any of the other POZ forums. In addition, the POZ Basics "HIV Transmission and Risks" and "HIV Testing" basics, will remain accessible to all.

NOTE: HIV testing questions will still need to be posted in the "Do I Have HIV?" forum; attempts to post HIV symptoms or testing questions in any other forums will be considered violations of our rules of membership and subject to time-outs and permanent bans.

To learn how to upgrade your Forums account to participate beyond three posts in the "Do I Have HIV?" Forum, please click here.

Thank you for your understanding and future support of the best online support service for people living with, affected by and at risk for HIV.

Author Topic: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(  (Read 15642 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« on: June 14, 2008, 08:02:23 am »
Hello Everybody

Sorry for my bad english, i hope you can understand it.

Something horrible ist happen this week for me, i cant believe it , how stupid i was.

In Europe, Switzerland is now the Football Europe Match;-(

I was on a match and drink so much alcohol and then the mistake in my life is happen:

I move so drunken in the red-light district and had with 3 Womens unprotected vaginal Sex, in the morning i realise the horror, minimun 2 of the girls use Drugs, i dont know if they use i.v drugs, but 100 % they take cocaine in thery nose.

Its so crazy this Women are from the Street prostitution, the highest risk for hiv.

24 Hour Later i call the Hospital and write to an HIV Doc.

i Found Informations about the PEP for HIGH RISK Situations, i tell this the doctor but he says to me:

Yes the time for PEP ist ok for you(tell something about 72 Hour) but i dont want give you PEP because the Risk ist not Big to contract HIV.he tell me 7 % of de Girls who use i.v Drugs are HIV + and the risk is 1:300 that i contactet the HI Virus, 1:300? oh my god this is so much.

Now 6 days after the horror Day i sleeped only 2 days and cant eat and did work in the office, its so shameful what happen.

I still wait now for the primary Symtoms of HIV, look every Hour on my body.

I see on the Internet some Informationes about de PCR HIV Test . if the Test after 15 -20 is Postiv or Negativ i can be secured . Is this true?

Sorry for my bad english ;-( I hope you can understand me, now i go to the drug store and buy sleeping pill, i must sleep.

It was now a big failing that the doctor dont give the PEP, because it was ah ultra high Risk Situations ;-(
Im so shameful for this day, its not ok to buy girls








Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #1 on: June 14, 2008, 08:19:46 am »
Dear 08,

How about as you read this you take a nice, deep and slow breath in and then out. And then do it a second time. I mean it! And do that everytime you find yourself tensing up. Good breathing really, really helps to calm things down.

Now, as far as your situation goes. Wringing your hands and worrying about what ifs is just a waste of your energy. There are some things you ought to know. HIV is a fragile virus. It is not easy to transmit. It is much more difficult to transmit from female to male. Yes, of course you were at risk having unprotected intercourse. But the odds are still significantly in your favor that you will come out of this ok when you test at 13 weeks. And 13 weeks is when you should have the standard ELISA test done to get a reliable result.

As far as  using a PCR, that is NOT recommended. Although it is a highly sensistive test it was NOT designed for diagnoistic purposes. Becuase of its high sensitivity it frequently gives a FALSE positive. So you are going to have to be patient and wait out the time to get tested at 13 weeks. The average time to seroconversion is 22 days. All but the smallest number of those who are going to seroconvert will do so within 4-6 weeks after an exposure to the virus. So if you want you can test at6 weeks. Assuming you get a negative then, you should still re-test at 13 weeks.

In the meantime while you are waiting, instead of indulging in all sorts of drama, you need to turn your attention to other things in your life. Don't tell me you are too upset to do that. Just DO IT! Meantime you are likely to be watching for "symtoms" or "signs" of HIV. That's another waste of time because so-called symptoms tell you nothing accurately about your HIV status. So don't get on to that slippery slope because you'll really drive yourself crazy that way.

So breathe and get busy with other things. I expect you to come out of this ok. And you must learn from this experience that mixing excessive alcohol and casual sex is a dangerous combination.

Good luck on your test and keep us posted.

Cheers,   
Andy Velez

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #2 on: June 14, 2008, 09:49:00 am »
Hi Andy

thanks for your nice answer :-X

Im now back in my Appartment ,in still under "shock" every second i think about it what happens, it was the darkest day in this year, unbelievable .

Ok, i dont know hows the Situation in the US about the Testing , in Austria is the PCR a fast way to find out if the HI Virus is avaible or not, the doctor tell me i must wait 14 days to test.Then after 13 Weeks for 100 % the Antibody Testing.

But i think it will be a dark day, it must happen , the deal with HIV, it was not a girl or girlfriend, 3 Girls from a    high risk sector, they have every day unprotected Sex with Mens, unbelievable  that i was there on Monday  :-\

I dont understand why de doctor DONT give the PEP (Postexposure Prophylaxis for HIV) to me , it was a so high Situation the unpro.  vaginal Sex :(

Now its to late

//
How about as you read this you take a nice, deep and slow breath in and then out. And then do it a second time. I mean it! And do that everytime you find yourself tensing up. Good breathing really, really helps to calm things down.//

I try it
« Last Edit: June 14, 2008, 10:04:12 am by desperate08 »

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #3 on: June 14, 2008, 10:16:19 am »
I suggest you do the PCR at 28 days. Prior to that can be too early. And you need to remember that because of its high level of sensitivity it can easily give a false positive.

Re PEP, well that's past and there's nothing good to be gained by dwelling on that. I find that it's always best to deal with what is and move on rather than lingering over the past.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

Offline Ann

  • Administrator
  • Member
  • Posts: 28,134
  • It just is, OK?
    • Num is sum qui mentiar tibi?
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #4 on: June 14, 2008, 10:36:45 am »
Desperate,

As Andy pointed out in his first post, PCR testing is not approved for diagnostic purposes. All you really need is an antibody test, and the earliest you should test is at the six week point.

You need to know that no matter what result you get from a PCR, you still MUST be tested for antibodies at the appropriate time. PCR testing in your case would be a waste of time and money.

If you insist on having a PCR done, make sure it is an RNA-PCR test. The DNA test is very prone to false positives but the RNA is a little better.

Again, ANY PCR result MUST be confirmed, one way or another, with antibody testing at the appropriate time.

While you have had a risk, I agree with the doctor who told you PEP was not necessary. You have an excellent chance of testing hiv negative without PEP.

Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #5 on: June 14, 2008, 11:34:38 am »
Desperate,

As Andy pointed out in his first post, PCR testing is not approved for diagnostic purposes. All you really need is an antibody test, and the earliest you should test is at the six week point.

You need to know that no matter what result you get from a PCR, you still MUST be tested for antibodies at the appropriate time. PCR testing in your case would be a waste of time and money.

If you insist on having a PCR done, make sure it is an RNA-PCR test. The DNA test is very prone to false positives but the RNA is a little better.

Again, ANY PCR result MUST be confirmed, one way or another, with antibody testing at the appropriate time.

While you have had a risk, I agree with the doctor who told you PEP was not necessary. You have an excellent chance of testing hiv negative without PEP.

Ann


Hi Ann + Andy

thanks very much vor your answer !!!


I hope it was a good Idea with the PEP Answer from the Doctor here ;-((

I hope and pray to God that your answer with de "exellent Chance to be HIV -" is right.

But it was not one Girl ,3!! absolut diseased  what happen with me on this night.

Its so shamed what happens with me , its not correct to have Sex with Prostitute , this was not a Club it was the Street.




Offline Matty the Damned

  • Member
  • Posts: 12,277
  • Antipodean in every sense of the word
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #6 on: June 14, 2008, 11:54:01 am »
Desperate,

HIV is a disease. It doesn't care who people are, just what they do. Just because the women you had sex with were sex workers (street, brothel or otherwise) is not necessarily a reason to think they have HIV.

The only way to find out if you have been infected is to be tested. I agree with Ann, there is every reason to think you will test negative.

MtD

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #7 on: June 14, 2008, 03:43:53 pm »
Desperate,

HIV is a disease. It doesn't care who people are, just what they do. Just because the women you had sex with were sex workers (street, brothel or otherwise) is not necessarily a reason to think they have HIV.

The only way to find out if you have been infected is to be tested. I agree with Ann, there is every reason to think you will test negative.

MtD

Thats true Sir.

But:

Its a different :

if i have unprotectet Sex with Girls who:

has got only a small number of mens ( disco, school, etc)

or ah prostitiute from the street whos got a lot of mens with unprot. sex.

ah High Risk Situation :o



Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #8 on: June 14, 2008, 04:51:51 pm »
We've told you all that we can tell you. There's nothing to do now but wait until you can get an accurate test result.

How you spend that time is going to be strictly up to you. You can torture yourself with guilt and remorse OR you can for starters try that  breathing well and get on with your life. We understand your concern very, very well. But making yourself miserable isn't going to make waiting any better. Quite the contrary. I say find other things in your life to focus on and it will make the waiting time pass much faster than you may imagine is possible. Really.
« Last Edit: June 15, 2008, 09:57:32 am by Andy Velez »
Andy Velez

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #9 on: June 14, 2008, 04:56:16 pm »
We've told you all that we can tell you. There's nothing to do now but wait until you can get an accurate test result.

How you spend that time is going to be strictly up to you. You can torture yourself with guilt and remorse OR you can get breathe and get on with your life. We understand your concern very, very well. But making yourself miserable isn't going to make waiting any better. Quite the contrary. I say find other things in your life to focus on and it will make the waiting time pass much faster than you may imagine is possible. Really.

Thanks Andy ;)

im so happy do find this Forum and you and the People, its correct what you say!

I must come down, i try it with your tip:

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #10 on: June 15, 2008, 04:15:56 pm »
Now its 7 days past that horrro happens.

in the moment i can only slepp with sleeping pill.and minimun 40 cigarettes on one day, before i smoke 5  :o

i wait now 7 days and make the first tests, here in austria and germany is the pcr Test on 14 days after the exposure  safe.

They tell me : after 14- 28 days the virus in my body are extremly high , if have hiv.


Offline RapidRod

  • Member
  • Posts: 15,288
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #11 on: June 15, 2008, 05:47:13 pm »
A PCR test is not a diagnostic test for HIV.

Offline cobraalfa

  • Member
  • Posts: 4
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #12 on: June 16, 2008, 09:02:10 am »
Hi,

there´s no reason for 'desperate' man! We all live in a period of good news about treatment!

Having a good health service, especialists to guide you is fundamental, too.

Good luck ever!!!
Marcos.







Hi, I'd like to share my experience

Offline Matty the Damned

  • Member
  • Posts: 12,277
  • Antipodean in every sense of the word
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #13 on: June 16, 2008, 09:26:30 am »
Hi Marcos,

It's nice that you want to help out but you need to know that answering questions here in Am I Infected is restricted under the terms of the Welcome Thread:

Only those Moderators and members who are authorized to answer questions in the Am I Infected? forum are permitted do so. Unauthorized responses may be deleted without permission of the poster. Repeatedly posting replies of this nature may result in a Time Out or permanent ban, at the discretion of the Moderator Team.

Cheers,

MtD

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #14 on: June 16, 2008, 09:27:26 am »
Marcos, only those who are authorized to do so are to reply to others who write in this section of the Forum. I am sure you are well intentioned, but you are not authorized to be responding here. Thanks for your cooperation.

I can also tell you that for someone who's in a high state of anxiety about HIV, telling him there are medications for treatment is NOT going to calm or comfort the person. In my experience it only raises their anxiety even higher if possible.
« Last Edit: June 16, 2008, 09:31:21 am by Andy Velez »
Andy Velez

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #15 on: June 16, 2008, 09:30:04 am »
Desp, I wonder if you are really reading what all of us have said to you. Or are you just listening to the hysteria in your head?

That PCR is a very sensitve test which was NOT designed for diagnostic purpores. It is very common to get a false positive because of its high sensitivity. And you would be well advised to wait until 4 weeks before taking it to have even a measure of accuracy. But I wonder if you're listening to any of this....
Andy Velez

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #16 on: June 16, 2008, 12:12:24 pm »
Desp, I wonder if you are really reading what all of us have said to you. Or are you just listening to the hysteria in your head?

That PCR is a very sensitve test which was NOT designed for diagnostic purpores. It is very common to get a false positive because of its high sensitivity. And you would be well advised to wait until 4 weeks before taking it to have even a measure of accuracy. But I wonder if you're listening to any of this....

Dear Andy

of course i read everything what you and the other people say to me.Its now a little better,the thing is this, there a lot of differents between Europe + US about Testing HIV.I wait now and hope everything will be ok :-\


@cobraalfa


there´s no reason for 'desperate' man! We all live in a period of good news about treatment!


Sorry i dont understand what you say.



Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #17 on: June 20, 2008, 06:04:16 am »
Hi Everybody

im so sad, i think i have the virus in my Body.

Im feel so sick, i was only one day on this week go working.

I can only sleep have no power, and the last night i sweating like never befor in my live, the bed was    splashy , the last night to but not so extremly like this night.No i feel like fever.



Its horrrible everthing. i cant do nothing.


Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #18 on: June 20, 2008, 08:03:09 am »
Fortunately feelings aren't facts. Along with whatever maybe causing your symptoms I would suspect your emotions are playing a significant role as well. You can discuss your symptoms with your doctor. Stress can be expressed many ways by the body. And there is absolutely nothing HIV-specific in what you are reporting.

I still expect you will come out of this ok as far as HIV is concerned.

Now stop all this drama and feeling sorry for yourself, none of which is helping you in anyway.
Andy Velez

Offline Bucko

  • Member
  • Posts: 1,947
  • You need a shine, missy!
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #19 on: June 20, 2008, 11:32:37 am »
Hi Everybody

im so sad, i think i have the virus in my Body.

Im feel so sick, i was only one day on this week go working.

I can only sleep have no power, and the last night i sweating like never befor in my live, the bed was    splashy , the last night to but not so extremly like this night.No i feel like fever.



Its horrrible everthing. i cant do nothing.



Desp-

Reread the excellent responses you've received so far. They should help you to relax a bit and gain some perspective.

You are obviously in a very stressful state, which is clouding your reasoning and undoubtedly causing physical symptoms. These are not HIV/AIDS-specific and are most likely caused by stress. Please try and gain some peace or you'll only make yourself feel worse.

And please stop equating your experiences with the prostitutes as something shameful or evil. You're a human being who made the mistake of not using protection in the heat of the moment. Your choice of sex partners is irrelevant to the risk, which is frankly so low that you were not prescribed PEP.

Sex is not evil or shameful: unprotected sex (with anyone outside of a monogamous, long-term relationship) is unwise but not monstrous. Please, for your own peace of mind, gain perspective and try to relax.
Blessed with brains, talent and gorgeous tits.

Blathering on AIDSmeds since 2005, provocative from birth

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #20 on: June 20, 2008, 01:51:38 pm »
thanks thanks to all you , god bless you all;)

Yes its true im a really ultra sensitive men, i hate this, there everytime a movie in my brain.
this destroy my body.


Im so happy to find this forum with this people her!!!!


THANKS A LOT TO ALL!!


Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #21 on: June 25, 2008, 08:08:16 am »
Dear People

im now really down :'(

I tell you a few days before that i have problems , like sweating i the night, no sleeping for 6 Days and extremly chops (maxilla?) pains 

I was now i the Hospital, the surgeon and doctor tell me after the CT that i have a big hole between my maxillary antrum an , brain and teeth .

He tell me it really coult be a tumor.

amazing ::)

On Monday i must go to operate under general anesthetica for 2 hour.He give me a lot of drugs like hardcore pain killer antibiotics etc etc

Im so sick now, first the HIV desaster and now this bullshit.

Im so down now, everything in my life now ist black ::) :-\


2 bad news HIV and now this fucking operation


Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #22 on: June 25, 2008, 09:08:04 am »
Well, that's a big shock finding that out. It doesn't change my expectation for you that HIV is NOT your problem.

Good luck with the surgery. Keep us posted.
Andy Velez

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #23 on: June 29, 2008, 09:52:50 am »
Hi Andy

ye , i hope so that HIV is not my Problem ::)

Tomorrow is the Operation im a little discomposed  but it must  do it tomorrow.


What must i say to the doctor tomorrow ? that im maybe HIV +?



About the Symtoms i have got from Wednesday the 18 - Friday maybe Saturday the 21, 3x times in the night sweating and was in the 3 or 4 days very very weary.I didnt have got Rash , Muskle Pain , swollen glands, muscle aches, diarrhea .

this week i feel very good, no Symtoms, now Today is the 3 Week after the Risk day, maybe it begins tomorrow or later the Symptoms.

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #24 on: June 29, 2008, 02:21:18 pm »
I would not bring up the question of HIV with your surgeon. The likelihood that you are going to test HIV+ is not great. It seems to me to be a separate issue regarding the reason for your surgery.

Good luck with that procedure.
Andy Velez

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #25 on: June 29, 2008, 02:27:38 pm »
Ok thanks Andy for your answer ;)


Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #26 on: July 09, 2008, 06:03:29 pm »
Hello everybody

want only say:

the operation is finish, they but a lot of things out of my mouth and send it to the nstitute to analyze it.

I think this Problem is now fixed, im only really bushed but i think this is normaly  :)


I was now for 2 weeks under antibiotics and a lot of other drugs, now i have a thrush on my tongue , but this can be a side effect of the antibiotics :o

Now its time to fix the HIV Problem


I tell you more when i take the HIV Test, i hopp everything will be ok :-[

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #27 on: July 09, 2008, 06:13:21 pm »
I'm glad you have gotten through that surgery.

And yes, antibiotics can cause thrush. Thrush is NOT an HIV-specific occurence. It happens as well to those who are NOT HIV positive.

Good luck with your HIV test when you take it.

Keep us posted.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #28 on: July 21, 2008, 02:01:33 pm »
The Operation was ok i feel fine now, but i found today this article :o

Authorities search for clients of prostitute who spread HIV virus

When a 39-year-old prostitute known as Róza was admitted to a hospital in Cheb, western Bohemia, in March this year with a liver condition, nobody suspected that she was the person the local public health authorities had been looking for since 2005. Jaroslava Hrabáková is an epidemiologist at the Regional Hygiene Centre in Cheb.

“We found out in March this year, after Róza died, that she was the woman who between 2001 and 2004 infected two men here with HIV. The men then infected their partners. So we launched a search for other clients of hers to discover the whole network. We want to make these people start treatment, but mainly to stop the infection from spreading further into the population.”

The authorities received Róza’s phone book and started calling the numbers they thought might belong to the woman’s regular clients to warn them they could have been infected with HIV. Out of the 20 men reached so far, six are HIV positive. Do the authorities have any idea of how many men in total could have got the deadly virus from Róza?

http://www.radio.cz/en/article/106291

6 from 20 are now HIV +, an 100 more can be now HIV +


Now i dont really understand why the Doctors give me not a PEP, i have a ultra high Risk Situation.

The other bad thing, i found a girl from the Horrornight i was so shocket when i see how shes look like, she was a really Druguser Junkie and ask her about her HIV Status, she smiles only and said:

Its now not her Problem what happen to me with the HIV Virus.


Im so a Asshole, how can this happen all on this night







Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #29 on: July 21, 2008, 02:48:15 pm »
What good purpose is served by your getting into all of this stuff? It's escaping me.
Andy Velez

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #30 on: July 22, 2008, 01:05:12 pm »
Ah Andy

they bring it in every german newspaper, i dont search it i found it automatically ;D, normaly that im now nervously, 6 from 20 are HIV Positiv, thats a big Bang.

My Doctor tell me the Chance are real but small and now i read this message.

I Hope everything is fine, still waiting for the Testday, but i must say thanks very very much for your Support and your encouragement.

Its not naturally (or self-evident  on english?)

greets

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 34,126
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #31 on: July 22, 2008, 03:08:30 pm »
Find other things to read. And not about HIV. 

I still expect you to come out of your test ok.
Andy Velez

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #32 on: August 02, 2008, 06:34:31 pm »
Hi Girls and Boys


update:

After 54 Days (8 Weeks) i make last night 2 HIV Rapid Tests like this one:

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/testing/rapid/images/Unigold-kit.jpg


Result :

Negativ



I know it means not much, i still must wait 4 Weeks for 99% Chance if the Test ist Negativ or Positiv

Offline Ann

  • Administrator
  • Member
  • Posts: 28,134
  • It just is, OK?
    • Num is sum qui mentiar tibi?
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #33 on: August 02, 2008, 09:59:32 pm »
des,

Your eight week negative result is highly unlikely to change.

Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #34 on: August 05, 2008, 08:03:42 am »
Hi Ann

ok thanks, i make 3 Rapid Test after 8 Weeks (54 Days) all Negativ.But maybe they are false negativ.

Now i wait 4 Weeks for next Testing. ;)

Offline Ann

  • Administrator
  • Member
  • Posts: 28,134
  • It just is, OK?
    • Num is sum qui mentiar tibi?
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #35 on: August 05, 2008, 08:10:07 am »
des,

Your eight week negative is HIGHLY UNLIKELY TO CHANGE, so please, don't use this forum to go on and on about it. If you need additional support, seek out a counselor. We only do risk assessment and test information here. We don't hold hands.

Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #36 on: August 05, 2008, 08:34:55 am »
Hi Ann

ok thanks , but i wasn't a question only a message  ;D ;)

Thanks for Support all the time!!!

Offline desperate08

  • Member
  • Posts: 19
Re: Ultra HIGH RISK i cant believe it ;-(
« Reply #37 on: September 06, 2008, 08:03:00 am »
Hi Ann +Andy

today i become the test result back, it was negative ;)


I cant say enough thanks to you Ann + Andy, you give me a lot of power for the Window Periode ;)

Thanks to this fantastic Forum!!

 


Terms of Membership for these forums
 

© 2024 Smart + Strong. All Rights Reserved.   terms of use and your privacy
Smart + Strong® is a registered trademark of CDM Publishing, LLC.