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Title: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 30, 2007, 08:10:29 pm
I guess this poll pertains to straight women and gay/bisexual men mostly.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: tigger2376 on March 30, 2007, 08:12:12 pm
we should add girth to this...
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: milker on March 30, 2007, 08:56:33 pm
hmmmm girth...

My best lover was not the biggest.. although the skinny type with a 9incher.. My best fuck ever.. to the point that he asked me "are you ok?" after seeing me trying to regain my breath after the violent pounding lol

The biggest was "interesting".. but I prefer girth compared to length, too long and it hurts me.. give me a 7x6 over a 9.5x5 :D

Milker (who thinks he will post a lot in this topic)
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 30, 2007, 09:12:47 pm
how are we defining "lover" here?  is this just for a casual trick/fuck or a romantic life partner?
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 30, 2007, 09:14:32 pm
how are we defining "lover" here?  is this just for a casual trick/fuck or a romantic life partner?

Best sex, sweatheart.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 30, 2007, 09:21:20 pm
Geez... there's been so many big ones.  When I whittle them down to a top five it gets close.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: tigger2376 on March 30, 2007, 10:08:34 pm
And LOL 'sweatheart' freudian slip methinks ;D
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: milker on March 30, 2007, 11:32:17 pm
How come there are not 60 posts already ?  ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???

Hello?  ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???

Milker.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 30, 2007, 11:36:46 pm
because people here dont like to talk about sexual issues....its taboo
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: milker on March 30, 2007, 11:37:46 pm
because people here dont like to talk about sexual issues....its taboo

erm ok.  :o :o :o :o :o :o
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 30, 2007, 11:43:39 pm
actually ill tell you what it is ....all the hornballs usually talking about sex are out having sex and having fun on a friday night instead of on here....

but my best lay were so many and so many shapes and sizes lol...

but if the guy can $#@* me and make me cum without touching myself then its a winner

-josh
(who can count the times thats happened on 1 well maybe 2 hands)
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: scotttt on March 31, 2007, 12:30:27 pm
Al,

You are asking me to go through and remember the thousands of men I have enjoyed over the past.............year?!?!

Sexual encounters are kind of like meals, you only really remember the outstanding ones.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: bear60 on March 31, 2007, 12:36:01 pm
"because people here dont like to talk about sexual issues....its taboo" quote

oh yea....its dirty
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 31, 2007, 01:09:48 pm
btw:  fags over-estimat cock size ALL the time for those large one... just like porn directors do in their advertisements

also, are we measuring on the top of the shaft or the bottom -- VERY important to clarify! :)
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Catman on March 31, 2007, 01:50:13 pm
All my long term partners were "average" but not small (between 6"-7"). However, I did date a friend of mine and though it did not develop into a stable relationship, we did have sex 2-3 times. He had an 8-9 incher that I was not going to let its way between my hips. Just oral sex and jerking off was the thing for us. I would not want a guy too large because "What am I going to do with it all day! Stare at it?" Give me a guy with skillfull hands and fingers and I'm happy just with that.  ;) Oh, I just remembered that I did get a "big one" in me when I was about 20 years old. I think he was Dominican also. He was cute and short in height but had a nice 8-9 penis. It took him about an hour giving me tongue and finger before I really wanted it pushed in! He did it nicely and slowly and it did work out. That was a one time thing for me... ;D
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: scotttt on March 31, 2007, 01:52:00 pm
btw:  fags over-estimat cock size ALL the time for those large one... just like porn directors do in their advertisements

also, are we measuring on the top of the shaft or the bottom -- VERY important to clarify! :)

So fucking true!!! I dated this guy once who was barely 51/2 inches and he told me he had 8. I responded with "Well, then I guess I am 11 inches, because I got at least two and a half inches on you". 

He was easy to deep throat however.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 02:06:24 pm
So fucking true!!! I dated this guy once who was barely 51/2 inches and he told me he had 8. I responded with "Well, then I guess I am 11 inches, because I got at least two and a half inches on you". 

He was easy to deep throat however.

Did she just tell us how Hung she is... Nice size Scotty.... U go girl.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: scotttt on March 31, 2007, 02:14:28 pm
LOL Al,

It is funny how the comment came up. I am half Sicilian, he is Puerto Rican, and said something about being a "well hung Puerto Rican".  I had one tequila too many and said something like, "Well, you are half right, because I know you are Puerto Rican, but I was packin' more than that in Kindergarten, okaaaaaaaaaaay!!!"  He responded with "I am well-hung, I am eight and a half inches" and I responded with "Girl, didn't they teach you about the metric system, those are centimetres you referring to, not inches..."

Funny thing, he still tries to call and email me.

Ahhh, the power of the penis :D :D
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 02:32:28 pm
you know what sucks....

ever since i quit doing crystal meth (2 years ago except for 1 little blip) i havent been able to enjoy bottoming (well maybe once or twice)......it used to be BIGGER=BETTER (bring it on).....now i think any more than 7-8 inches is too much

i guess i dont know how to "relax" anymore sober hahaha...although im going to have to learn because i miss bottoming from time to time
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Catman on March 31, 2007, 02:53:19 pm
I am half Sicilian, he is Puerto Rican, and said something about being a "well hung Puerto Rican".  I had one tequila too many and said something like, "Well, you are half right, because I know you are Puerto Rican, but I was packin' more than that in Kindergarten, okaaaaaaaaaaay!!!"  He responded with "I am well-hung, I am eight and a half inches" and I responded with "Girl, didn't they teach you about the metric system, those are centimetres you referring to, not inches..."
LMAO! :D You do know that many Latins tend to exagerate a bit. If you didn't know, you do now! Ha,ha! :D
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 02:56:07 pm
except dominicans....

if they sauy its 8" its really 9.5". You need to add 1.5". I guess they are humble people or they simply don't want to scare you. if you tell them you are a virgin, they will rape you quicker than you say "i was kiddin".
They have a thing for tightness.


Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: scotttt on March 31, 2007, 03:05:55 pm
except dominicans....

if they sauy its 8" its really 9.5". You need to add 1.5". I guess they are humble people or they simply don't want to scare you. if you tell them you are a virgin, they will rape you quicker than you say "i was kiddin".
They have a thing for tightness.




 :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

I also think that smaller penises hurt more.  I remember losing my rear virginity to my first boyfriend who was tiny.  I kept thinking the entire time that it felt like I had an angry woodpecker going to town on my ass.  It felt like the chapstick from hell, it hurt so much.  How something so small could cause so much pain.

Years later when I moved onto bigger and better things I discovered that discomfort or pleasure had much to do with my state of arousal.  With a larger guy it is more like "Bring it on, big daddy" or "Aye Papi, is that all for me?!" rather than "That little thing looks so red and angry". 

I know, too much information............

Scott
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: ImADope on April 01, 2007, 03:00:35 am
The median was 7.32 but mean was 8.1 and mode was a lá.
Incorrigibly foolish.  A person is more than genitalia.  Some people are more than one genitalia.  Call them hermAphrodités, part Goddess of Love, Beauty, and Eros.
Why not ask of the highest IQ or the best thighs or most adept kiss-giver?
The most romantic or most wealthy or most tighter anal sphincter he can't sit for fear of sucking up the furniture?

Cheers to your homios!

Klaatu



Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: JohnOso on April 01, 2007, 06:27:00 am
This thread is making me horny as hell.

Please feel free to PM me with any other amusing stories.  ;D

Otherwise,  off to xtube.com.............

John,
(horndog extraordinaire)
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: milker on April 01, 2007, 11:27:17 am
"That little thing looks so red and angry". 

ROFL I just had a visual

Milker.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Coffeechick88 on April 01, 2007, 12:33:28 pm
My best was 9 inches (and yes I did measure him--this was before we slept together and somehow I talked him into dropping his pants and letting me get the tape measure out).  He had a nice girth as well.  Girth and skill are big things to me as well.  Now much longer than 9 inches and it hurts.  I had a guy who was bigger than that (he had asked me if he was the biggest I ever had and I said by eyeball I thought so.  He didn't let me measure, though.), but it was painful, every thrust felt as if it were going through the cervix.  Too short is not good.  There was a guy who I couldn't feel when it got in and my first thought was, "Awww it's kind of cute.", so really there wasn't much of a connection there.  Even though he gave the best oral I ever had, it really was disappointing.  The big hands, big dick thing doesn't always hold true.....
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Miss Philicia on April 01, 2007, 12:52:55 pm
This thread keeps making me think back to around 1996 and this incredibly hot looking Cuban/Dominican I met in a bar.  He was attractive so it didn't matter really how huge he was, but on the ride home that night while he was in the back seat with me he pulled out the ONLY monster.  It was just wicked... like if Michelangelo had carved it himself.  Perfectly proportioned and colored too... with an amazing amount of foreskin on it.  I went to town on that thing right in the car, and made my friend who was driving really gag as he watched in the rear view mirror.  He couldn't believe what a haul I'd pulled in from the river!  It was a good 10.5/11" for sure, but it was the thickness that was even more amazing.  Like a beer bottle... thought I'd gag when it went in me but surprisingly I rode it with aplomb, and he wasn't being easy with me either.  Heaven!

Thank goodness he was a top too when we got home... the whole affair was a solid "100" score.  Too bad he only lasted about three dates after that.  He was a bit young for me though... and lived with his mother so I didn't sweat it that much, well except his cock.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: milker on April 01, 2007, 01:39:42 pm
This thread keeps making me think back to around 1996 and this incredibly hot looking Cuban/Dominican I met in a bar.  He was attractive so it didn't matter really how huge he was, but on the ride home that night while he was in the back seat with me he pulled out the ONLY monster.  It was just wicked... like if Michelangelo had carved it himself.  Perfectly proportioned and colored too... with an amazing amount of foreskin on it.  I went to town on that thing right in the car, and made my friend who was driving really gag as he watched in the rear view mirror.  He couldn't believe what a haul I'd pulled in from the river!  It was a good 10.5/11" for sure, but it was the thickness that was even more amazing.  Like a beer bottle... thought I'd gag when it went in me but surprisingly I rode it with aplomb, and he wasn't being easy with me either.  Heaven!

Thank goodness he was a top too when we got home... the whole affair was a solid "100" score.  Too bad he only lasted about three dates after that.  He was a bit young for me though... and lived with his mother so I didn't sweat it that much, well except his cock.

I need some Kleenex  ??? ??? Urgent ! :o :o :o :o Anyone ?? Please???  ??? ??? ??? :o :o :o ;D ;D ;D :D :D :D

Milker.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Bizmark33 on April 01, 2007, 04:09:38 pm
Haha.....gotta laugh at this one. Acutally my BEST male lover wasn't "Big" at all, only about 4 inches. A close tie with my second best wich was about 9 or more, but very, very sweet and considerate. Just goes to show, it's not necissarily size, but HOW you use it.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: puertorico2006 on April 01, 2007, 04:17:05 pm
4 inches?! i also have to agree with another poster....the small ones hurt....OUCH
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: jack on April 02, 2007, 09:50:46 am
8 7/16, tantalizingly wide with an enormous head. He knew it was the most beautiful cock in the world. I guess thats where the word "cocky" comes from. I just couldnt keep my hands or mind off it.  Anything in the 10 to 12 range just seems so unwieldy. Now I will be thinking about it all day.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Bucko on April 02, 2007, 10:48:50 am
I'm a reverse size queen, or a lazy top, depending on your perspecive, I guess.

A tough, muscular bad boy with a small uncut dick sends me over the edge, but I know I'm a weirdo.

Brent
(Who does not get fucked)
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Ihavehope on April 02, 2007, 10:51:35 am
I'm a reverse size queen, or a lazy top, depending on your perspecive, I guess.

A tough, muscular bad boy with a small uncut dick sends me over the edge, but I know I'm a weirdo.

Brent
(Who does not get fucked)

Bucko, since when are do u not get banged? lolz.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: milker on April 02, 2007, 10:53:03 am
Bucko, since when are do u not get banged? lolz.
She's drunk already..

Milker.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Bucko on April 02, 2007, 10:58:49 am
Bucko, since when are do u not get banged? lolz.

I attempted to bottom last summer and never got past the head (but I did make the bed bounce).

Aside from that, I gave up bottoming for good in 1979 when I was 19. My flower never opened  ;D

Brent
(Who has no talent at bottoming whatsoever)
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: allopathicholistic on April 02, 2007, 10:58:52 am
Jack I thought you're straight.  ??? Anyway I agree with Coffeechick and Puertorico that large ones can hurt a lot. I once met a guy with what seemed like more than 10" but it never seemed to get rigid & stiff (is that normal?), and even if it did.....  :-\
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: jack on April 02, 2007, 11:22:14 am
I am. Now.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: bravebuddharich on April 02, 2007, 01:44:40 pm
My best lover was my longest ever partner. He was at least 8.5", a bit larger than I am. But the biggest cock I have ever seen was this cute young brazilian boy who picked me up, ironically on my way home from meditation practice! He had a 13" cock, and it was the fattest one I have ever seen! he wanted to top me, but I prefer to top almost always, so I only gave him head - that was tough enough of a task!! (I screwed him, which was great fun). What really surprises me is how many huge ones are on small guys - and how many muscle guys are so incredibly small!

I prefer the size and shape of a male's ass...

Metta,
Rich

Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Moffie65 on April 02, 2007, 02:17:42 pm
In my 50 years of sex play, I have found that the size of a penis is just about as important to a fine sexual encounter as the type of ride the man arrived in.  In other words, nothing matters less than this dimension. 

Love,
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: ImADope on April 02, 2007, 04:19:35 pm
Moffie65, you are wise.  I believe same way too but learn from you about human life and habits.

When you love someone the levels of enjoyment are reaching much higher than having sex only with person you may even not like or know.  I did get illness from many sexual participants but now love only one.

Cheers to you!

Klaatu
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Ihavehope on April 02, 2007, 04:20:12 pm
(http://www.theheadsofstate.com/portfolio/img/liars/1.jpg)
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: Miss Philicia on April 02, 2007, 04:28:40 pm
Look... I asked for clarification from the thread's author on how we were measuring "best lover" and he consequently said "best sex" no "best lover"... if it was "best lover" than I'd totally go with my last partner, who was a divine male specimen with skin as dark as coal, born and raised in Nigeria (no, he's not an email scammer!) but educated in London and lived there for 20 years.  Incredibly smart and fun man... and he WAS a man 100%.  I've never been overly into muscles, but he gave me the added bonus of being a non-steroid using bodybuilder of sorts, with a 245 lbs body on a 5'9" frame which is damn big.  So, as you can imagine the motion in the ocean produced momentum and large waves, even though his cock was a slightly above normal 7"

There's a small part of me that wholly regrets that I ended this relationship.  We connected on so many intense levels of a non-sexual manner that the partnership was one incredibly of equals, which is all I ever want because I have a tendency to manipulate people... I know, really bad personality trait on my part but it's been self-evident since the age of 12.  I'm better with this than I used to be.

Of course, currently I'm a spinster but a damn fine one.
Title: Re: How big was your best lover?
Post by: JesusLovesYou on April 09, 2007, 03:22:44 pm
8.5 " x 8", he was magnificent. I miss him dearly, he had to move to a different country.