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Title: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 07:31:53 am
hii this morning i went to a CSW. She took off her t shirt and bra and i too did exactly the same. We were both half naked (our pants were on all the time ) and she was lying on me on the bed.
 we indulged in frottage where in she was on top of me and she rubbed her body over mine very rigously.
 Her nipples were ereact and so were mine and they were constantly brushing over each other. i could feel them as well. before this act she had applied oil on my chest and nipples and massaged them a bit.
 the act was over i had cum in my pants . but then it struck me that , is it possible for the nipples to leak/ discharge ? and if it has then 100 percent that leak/discharged fluid has rubbed on to my nipples. And what the chances of fetting hiv or any other std this way?
 i loooked on all the possible sites and never did find and answer to this, everywhere it has been explained wht happens when some one licks the nipple, which did not happen in my case.
 please help me
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 07:39:32 am
i also wanted to know , if it is possible for a woman who appers to be healthy looking to discharge any fluid from her nipple , that too whn pressed or by rubbing? as sucking didnt take place?
next question is that even if she discharged any fluid from her nipple on to my nipple through rubbing and contact. is it possible for tht fluild to enetr my body through my nipple?
i mean is my nipple (male) a post of entry like an anus or penis?
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: RapidRod on May 09, 2012, 07:39:55 am
You never had an exposure. HIV is not transmitted in that manner.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 07:45:42 am
ok so do u want to say that
1 she cannot have a discharged /leak
or
2 even if she has a discharge / leak it cant enter from my (male) nipple
or
3 do u have anything else on u r mind
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: jkinatl2 on May 09, 2012, 07:47:13 am
You get HIV from unprotected vaginal and anal sex. You do not get it from rubbing nipples. That's just absurd.
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 07:49:08 am
thanks jkinatl2, so i understand even if she discharges and then rubs my nipples still no risk , that means nipple isnt a port of entry for males?
thanks
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: jkinatl2 on May 09, 2012, 07:52:50 am
thanks jkinatl2, so i understand even if she discharges and then rubs my nipples still no risk , that means nipple isnt a port of entry for males?
thanks

A nipple is not a port of entry for HIV. The tip of your penis is an entry port for HIV. Your anus is an entry port for HIV.
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 08:27:08 am
thanks ann  are u around
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 08:36:57 am
ann i read all u r messages to diffrent people . also i want to say u explain things with extreme clearity. Can u tell me if the duscharge touches my nipples during rigirous rubbing, is it possible for the fluild s to enter my body and get me hiv virus? please do help me. thanks , waiting for u r reply.
also has there ever been a case like this ?
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: Ann on May 09, 2012, 08:53:36 am
Tiger,

Yes, I'm here and I can't believe what I'm reading. Is hiv education in your country really that poor? Of course you absolutely can NOT get hiv from nipples. NO! There has NEVER been a case like this. Ever. Never, never, ever. And you aren't going to make history by being the first.

It's only tiny babies who rely on breast milk for their survival who might - might - get infected through breast milk. As you're here on the internet, I think I can safely assume you're not a little baby nursing at anyone's breast.

You have not done or had anything done to you that was in any way a risk for hiv infection. You do not need to test over this incident.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER RUBBING NIPPLES, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 09:05:27 am
thanks ann wht a relief.. i am taking it as impossible impossible to get hiv by fluild passing through my nipples even if she was discharging loads of fluids... thanks
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: jkinatl2 on May 09, 2012, 09:15:38 am
thanks ann wht a relief.. i am taking it as impossible impossible to get hiv by fluild passing through my nipples even if she was discharging loads of fluids... thanks

Yes, yes, a thousand times yes. Please use a condom for intercourse and you will avoid HIV.

Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: Ann on May 09, 2012, 09:21:30 am
Tiger,

She could have been squirting breast milk in your face and mouth and you still would not have had a risk.

NO RISK.

You seem to think that those of us who are hiv positive can infect you just by touching you. We can't.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. IT REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE!!!

Ann
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 03:12:27 pm
sorry ann i meant no disrespect, in fact i apologise that my anxiety got the worst of me. sincere apologies a million times. its a great service you and u r team does. i am sorry , no disrespect.
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 04:09:53 pm
hi andy it appears that u r online
this is u r statement:

Re: Is Breast Discharge loaded with HIV ????
« Reply #3 on: April 09, 2007, 12:30:12 PM »
Quote
You are NOT at risk.  Even if the woman was HIV+ there is no way you became infected through what you've described.  The saliva in your mouth has at least 12 known enzymes that break down the HIV Virus.  You have no worries of being infected through a nipple.

i understand he is at no risk as saliva has saved him , but wht about me , can it enter my nipple , after nipple on nipple long time rubbing. i am sure there was a discharge.
please help?
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: Rev. Moon on May 09, 2012, 04:27:49 pm

i understand he is at no risk as saliva has saved him , but wht about me , can it enter my nipple , after nipple on nipple long time rubbing. i am sure there was a discharge.
please help?

What part did you not understand about NO RISK?  You could take a bath in this person's breast milk, play with it however you wish, drink it, lick it, give yourself a facial, sleep on it, etc.  It would still represent no risk for the transmission of this virus. 

Keep it up with your repeated questions about situations involving zero risk and you're going to find yourself getting a time-out rather quickly.
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: Andy Velez on May 09, 2012, 04:29:07 pm
You continue to worry needlessly.

Only an infant less than 6 months old is at risk from a lactating woman, because at that point the infant's immune system protection has not yet kicked in.

For you as an adult there is absolutely no risk for HIV from any nipple rubbing or discharge.

Are you actually paying attention to what is being said to you? You only seem to be listening to some very silly stuff going around in your head about risks which have absolutely no basis in HIV science.

Cut it out! You're creating drama where there is no HIV risk. Get on with your life.
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on May 09, 2012, 05:11:52 pm
rev moon and andy , its discharge from nipple not breast fluid. Would u r answer be the same?
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: Andy Velez on May 09, 2012, 05:32:20 pm
Yes. And now I am going to caution you that if you continue to return here about this totally non-risky situation you are very quickly going to find yourself getting a Time Out from the site. HIV is not your problem. Period.

Consider yourself warned. 
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on June 03, 2012, 07:08:11 pm
The incident and the heading is diffrent , I know I didn't have to open a new topic :
VAGINAL CUM ON HAND TOUCHED TO MY PENIS HEAD-
Also I wanted to ask you ,my hand accidently touched the liquid from inside her vagina and then touched on my penis within like a second ,I am sure my hand was wet with her vaginal fluid. So will that pose a threat considering she was HIV Positive.
Thanks for keeping the good work up.
Utmost tensed
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: RapidRod on June 03, 2012, 07:11:46 pm
As you were told in another forum you didn't have an exposure.
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: jkinatl2 on June 03, 2012, 07:29:31 pm
The incident and the heading is diffrent , I know I didn't have to open a new topic :
VAGINAL CUM ON HAND TOUCHED TO MY PENIS HEAD-
Also I wanted to ask you ,my hand accidently touched the liquid from inside her vagina and then touched on my penis within like a second ,I am sure my hand was wet with her vaginal fluid. So will that pose a threat considering she was HIV Positive.
Thanks for keeping the good work up.
Utmost tensed

Under no circumstances is this an HIV risk. At all.

Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on June 04, 2012, 12:48:13 am
Ann , andy any comments
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: jkinatl2 on June 04, 2012, 12:58:46 am
Ann , andy any comments

As one of the few people approved to respond in this forum, I assure you that Andy and Ann will concur.

Future exchanges over this same incident might result in a time out from the forum. Had you read our WELCOME THREAD

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0 (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0)

You would read:

Quote
Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.



Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: tigerman123 on June 13, 2012, 06:10:25 am
JK sir or ann or andy  can you please explain why there isnt any risk when vaginal cum on my hand touches it to my penish head. i though that such liquid contains hiv virus but isnt effective when it touches cuts or wounds...
i fail to undestand , though i am happy , as to why its wont infect on touching the penis head?? :(
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: RapidRod on June 13, 2012, 06:32:40 am
■Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result,  or no-risk situation will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.
Title: Re: nipple rubbing on nipple
Post by: Ann on June 13, 2012, 10:23:52 am
JK sir or ann or andy  can you please explain why there isnt any risk when vaginal cum on my hand touches it to my penish head. i though that such liquid contains hiv virus but isnt effective when it touches cuts or wounds...
i fail to undestand , though i am happy , as to why its wont infect on touching the penis head?? :(

Tiger,

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, vaginal fluid on your hand touching the head of your penis is not a risk. The cum is OUTSIDE the body.

Sexually speaking, the ONLY proven risks for hiv infection are unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. IT REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE!!!

Keep coming back with these NO RISK situations and you WILL be given that time out you've been warned about.

Please consider yourself warned for the LAST time!

Ann