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Title: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: denb45 on June 26, 2011, 11:01:42 am
I got this just yesterday form Carl's other-half Norm, here is the email he sent to Bob & I  so I will update all of you with his condition, I'm having a very hard time with this right now, so please bear with me :'(

Dennis/Bob,
This is a note to let you know that Carl is back in the hospital and not expected to live.  I apologize for the abruptness as at this point I am numb and not knowing how to cope with this.
They have taken him off nutritional IV and he isn't eating.  Has pneumonia, major swelling in the lower limbs and his cancer is taking over.
He is disoriented most of the time. 
No idea how much time he has......if he can beat the pneumomia, I can bring him home and hospice can help me.  Otherwise?
take care you guys,
Norm


let's all hope he pulls thur this, and I wish him & Norm the very best  :-[

Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: karry on June 26, 2011, 11:08:34 am
Hi Dennis
Thanks for sharing this. Its sad, very sad. If you happen to speak to Norm, tell him I am keeping Carl in my prayers and sending best thoughts his way.
Karry
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: leatherman on June 26, 2011, 11:21:26 am
that's very sad news :'( , Dennis; but thank you for letting us know.

My thoughts are with Carl and Norm during this terrible time. :-*
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: drewm on June 26, 2011, 11:27:01 am
PRAYERS! (((HUGS))) :'(
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: hope_for_a_cure on June 26, 2011, 11:28:49 am
Thank you Dennis for posting.  I wish there was something I could do to make his illness go away.  I will keep them both in my thoughts and prayers.  
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: bmancanfly on June 26, 2011, 11:37:03 am
very, very sad. 
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: aztecan on June 26, 2011, 11:40:17 am
The last email I received from Carl discussed his condition, but I wasn't aware it was progressing so quickly.

I am sending energy to Carl for peace and energy for strength to Norm, who has been an incredible support for Carl throughout all of this.

SADLY,

Mark
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Miss Philicia on June 26, 2011, 11:51:27 am
This saddens me so greatly. I was just thinking of Carl this morning and checked his profile and saw it was active around 6 AM, though I knew his condition had worsened I took it to mean maybe he was on the mend and gaining some weight/strength back. It's so horrible to see someone go through so much.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Rev. Moon on June 26, 2011, 12:55:56 pm
These are very saddening news.  So not fair  :'(
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: LM on June 26, 2011, 12:57:41 pm
Wishing much strength for you, Capt.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: RAB on June 26, 2011, 12:58:29 pm
Carl has suffered through so much, I just hope and pray that the suffering will end.

Sometimes I get really angry at the "higher power", this is one of those times.

RAB   :'(
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: phildinftlaudy on June 26, 2011, 01:10:36 pm
Definitely saddened by this news -
May Carl have healing energies, comfort, and peace -
I will keep him and Norm in my thoughts today.

-Phil :'(
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: next2u on June 26, 2011, 01:43:20 pm
ill be sure to keep him in my thoughts and send good energy his way. may peace and swift healing come to him soon.

sincerely,
d
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: bear60 on June 26, 2011, 01:51:21 pm
my heart is heavy
bless you Capt Carl
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: GSOgymrat on June 26, 2011, 03:26:58 pm
What awful news. I hope his suffering is brief. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Joe K on June 26, 2011, 04:36:03 pm
I simply have no words. My heart goes out to all. Such a painful shared loss.

Joe
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Theyer on June 26, 2011, 04:40:38 pm
so sorry
theyer.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: eric48 on June 26, 2011, 05:27:45 pm
We were so hopefull after his last posts... (back from hospital)

Now, we are lost.

Hugs

Eric
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: carousel on June 26, 2011, 05:41:01 pm
Just hoping this is a peaceful night for Carl.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.

Wishing you and Norm the very best.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: BT65 on June 26, 2011, 05:48:17 pm
I don't even know what to say.  So glad I got a chance to talk to the Cap the last time he was in the hospital.  It's just so sad.  I have a very saddened spirit at this moment. :'(
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Jeff G on June 26, 2011, 06:07:03 pm
Carl has a generous spirit and goes out of his way evertime we have talked to let me know how much friendship and the words of support mean to him . My conversations with him have been few lately but I will continue to think about him today as well as the days to follow and know what a wonderful guy he is .   
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Assurbanipal on June 26, 2011, 06:21:04 pm
Thinking of Carl  ...

and wishing him and Norm well.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: David_CA on June 26, 2011, 06:23:57 pm
This does seem so sudden.  He and Norm are both in our thoughts and prayers.  I hope both find peace soon.

D & D
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: OneTampa on June 26, 2011, 06:50:22 pm
So sorry to hear about Carl.

With prayer and hope.

Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Lou-ah-vull on June 26, 2011, 07:05:45 pm
So sorry to hear how both he and Norm are suffering.  I hope our support lifts their spirits.

Gary
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Matty the Damned on June 26, 2011, 07:06:12 pm
I am keeping Carl and Norm in my daily anxieties.

MtD
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: wolfter on June 26, 2011, 07:09:37 pm
How terribly sad.  My thoughts and energy are with them both.
Greg.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: pozniceguy on June 26, 2011, 07:27:36 pm
such  sad  news  , a real  test of support  and  love  from Norm,  praying he  can beat the pneumonia....and  have a quiet time  alone  with Norm

Nick
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Buckmark on June 26, 2011, 07:37:00 pm
I'm thinking of and praying for both Carl and Norm.  I am so sad.

Henry
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: J.R.E. on June 26, 2011, 07:50:45 pm
Dennis,


Thanks for posting this.  Carl and Norm will be in my thoughts.  This is just so overwhelmingly sad news.  He's been through so much, thinking of them both, through this difficult time.


Ray
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: spacebarsux on June 26, 2011, 09:03:12 pm
This is terribly sad. :(
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: klassykitty on June 26, 2011, 10:38:56 pm
Prayers and thoughts for Capt. Carl and Norm
Michelle
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Raf on June 27, 2011, 02:50:11 am
I'm so sorry for this news.... please be strong capt. Carl .
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Hellraiser on June 27, 2011, 03:13:40 am
Truly awful to read this this evening.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: komnaes on June 27, 2011, 05:31:59 am
The Captain is a sweet man.. it's hard to find someone who is ill and not feeling well in the hospital but can still manage to lift other spirits while talking to him.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Jeffreyj on June 27, 2011, 08:29:04 am
I hope and pray that his passing is swift and as painless as possible.So many have suffered so much during their final days on Earth. Please don't let him suffer, and may he go peacefully as possible.
So sad...
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: denb45 on June 27, 2011, 09:15:14 am
Here's another Update on Capt. Carl.......Norm is  having to move Carl to Kasemann Pres Hospice as I cannot care for him at home. 
I haven't told him yet and he's going to be pissed at me as he wants to die at home.  Probably move
him on Mon. or Tues.  they pretty well got the pneumonia under control but the cancer has taken over.
He is sedated most of the time.
appreciate your thoughts/support.
Norm
 
 :'(  I just have no words right now.......
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: skeebo1969 on June 27, 2011, 09:49:09 am


  Sadness fills my heart for the Cap.... :'(
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Robert on June 27, 2011, 10:04:53 am
yes, The Captain is a sweet man and my heart is also filled with sadness.  I wish him and Norm comfort and companionship during this lonely time.  
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: thunter34 on June 27, 2011, 10:06:33 am
My last thought upon sleeping and my first upon waking.

What a good, true friend you've been for me, Captain Carl.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: sharkdiver on June 27, 2011, 10:45:09 am
The Captain is a sweet man.. it's hard to find someone who is ill and not feeling well in the hospital but can still manage to lift other spirits while talking to him.

I have to agree. The last time I spoke with him we joked and laughed and for one moment ..I forgot where he was. 

Carl, you are my hero.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: AlanBama on June 27, 2011, 02:50:03 pm
thanks for sharing Dennis....

I pray for mercy for our Dear Captain.    Love and prayers to Norm.....you are right my friend, there are no words.    We love you


Alan
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Dachshund on June 27, 2011, 02:53:48 pm
Thinking of you and Norm my friend.
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: camille07 on June 27, 2011, 03:39:48 pm
This just really sucks.  Prayers go out to the Captain and Norm.

Hugs,

Camms
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on June 27, 2011, 03:44:37 pm
Thanks for posting this, D.

Sending lots of positive energy to the Capt. and Norm
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: WillyWump on June 27, 2011, 09:28:58 pm
Sending up thoughts and prayers for The Cap'n and Norm.

-Will
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Jody on June 27, 2011, 09:38:08 pm
Also my sympathies for Carl not to suffer.  Our forums have grown so much over the years, good and bad news both,  and I have not gotten to know everyone as much as I would have liked.  But Carl was a fine contributor here and was loved by many of our members.   Thinking of Carl and Norm tonight.

Jody :(
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: bocker3 on June 27, 2011, 10:12:24 pm
Such sad news -- my thoughts are with Carl and Norm. 
Hoping for a peaceful night.

Hugs,
Mike
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: AlanBama on June 29, 2011, 11:22:52 am
Dennis / anyone else?

Have you heard anything else from Norm?   Anxious to hear how Carl is doing....
Title: Re: Let's all say a Prayer for Capt. Carl
Post by: Hellraiser on June 29, 2011, 11:42:53 am
Dennis / anyone else?

Have you heard anything else from Norm?   Anxious to hear how Carl is doing....

I've been thinking the same thing, waiting to hear news.