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Offline WillyWump

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HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« on: December 11, 2010, 11:18:43 am »
Yes! Yes! Yes!

I'm going to be a Grandpa! (yes, I know it has a weird ring to it!)

My son told me yesterday that they are expecting!

I am so excited I can hardly stand it! Things for me have been so shitty the last few months with my mom being diagnosed with Lung Cancer, the chemo, etc. blah.

This news has given me a much needed boost and has allowed me to feel such an overwhelming amount of joy! As some of you know my son is my best friend, and I am always soooo proud of him! When he told me I couldn't even speak, I was so overcome and I burst out into an uncontrollable cry!

I am on cloud nine! I have a smile from here to there!  ;D

Get ready world, there is going to be another Wumpster/Wumpette in the world!!!

I gotta go buy diapers now!

Here's me and my boy, the soon-to-be-dad!

FUCK you HIV! Life is good ;)



« Last Edit: December 11, 2010, 11:26:38 am by WillyWump »
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Re: HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2010, 11:28:08 am »
I'm sure you'll be a great Grand Poppa, Wumpy.  That's a strappin' young man you have for a son.  Is he that tall or are you on your knees in the picture (kidding!) :)  Let's light up cigars soon!
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« Reply #2 on: December 11, 2010, 11:52:53 am »
Congrats Willy.......

As a grandpa of 4, I can tell you that it is much fun.

I'll second that you sure did produce a handsome (and tall) boy there......   am I seeing a Fireman uniform??  If that is what he's wearing -- keep him away from Jan -- she'll be sure to try and have her way with him.

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Re: HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« Reply #3 on: December 11, 2010, 11:56:19 am »
Congratulations! I can tell you being a grandparent is the BEST! Im a first time grandma and Im having the time of my life! My grandaughter will be 8 months old Monday. I love my kids more than anything, but my grandaughter...thats something really special! Its hard to explain....but you will soon find out what i mean!

Congratulations again Grandpa!

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« Reply #4 on: December 11, 2010, 12:31:49 pm »
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Re: HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« Reply #5 on: December 11, 2010, 12:36:01 pm »
Merry Christmas old man.
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« Reply #6 on: December 11, 2010, 01:19:29 pm »



   Congrats Willy!  Tell him if it's a girl to name it Staynecia..... I've never heard anyone with that name.
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Re: HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« Reply #7 on: December 11, 2010, 01:20:59 pm »
This is just awesome, awesome news.  Congrats Will.   :D

Does your son live near you?  When are they expecting?  Do you know the gender?

Awesome just doesn't seem to be strong enough word.  But soon you'll have a wee willie (willette) to spoil stinking rotten and leave it to the parents to clean up the mess!   ::)

I'm so happy for you and for your son.

L & K

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« Reply #8 on: December 11, 2010, 02:23:13 pm »
lol...congratulations old man. wow...

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Re: HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« Reply #9 on: December 11, 2010, 02:44:24 pm »
Congrats Wilhelmina.  Happy nooz.  You will make a fabulous grandparent.
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Re: HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« Reply #10 on: December 11, 2010, 03:03:10 pm »


CONGRATULATIONS !
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Re: HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« Reply #11 on: December 11, 2010, 03:09:40 pm »
I am so jealous!!   

CONGRATULATIONS!  What a great Christmas gift..!! :)
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« Reply #12 on: December 11, 2010, 03:11:11 pm »
Much Love, Much Congratulations   ;D  Have the best day
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« Reply #13 on: December 11, 2010, 03:44:27 pm »
Congratulations! What great news!

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Re: HOLY Crrrap! I'm going to be a Grandpa!
« Reply #14 on: December 11, 2010, 04:08:52 pm »
(and tall) boy there......   am I seeing a Fireman uniform??  If that is what he's wearing -- keep him away from Jan -- she'll be sure to try and have her way with him.

YES! he's a Fireman/Paramedic and he's 6'4''...I sent Jan pics several months back (doesn't she have a room in her house plastered with Fireman pics?)

I thought you would appreciate the news as you're a Gramps also :)


Does your son live near you?  When are they expecting?  Do you know the gender?

RAB   ;D

No, he lives in Austin :( But it's only about an hour away. They are expecting Aug 14th (which throws AMG in doubt). Don't know the gender yet, but im gonna get the gypsy egg test going on her.

Thanks everyone!!!

I gotta go hit the "Babies R Us" before I head up there tonight! Because of course, I gotta try to be the first person to get them a pack of Pampers!

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« Reply #15 on: December 11, 2010, 04:27:09 pm »
I thought you would appreciate the news as you're a Gramps also :)


You know what I really love (and I would have said "No way" 11 years ago)....  when I go visit and get out of the car, I can hear them inside yelling, "Grandpa's here, Grandpa's here".  Yep -- never get enough of that.  Shopping for them is fun too -- who knew I'd love buying pretty pink dresses  :o.  My oldest granddaughter (she's eight) will ONLY wear pink.

You are a lucky man -- you live close enough to visit often -- mine are outside Asheville, NC -- I only get to see them 2 or 3 times a year.  Remember -- a Grandpa's main role is to spoil them rotten.......  Mom & Dad can deal with the aftermath.....

Congrats again -- I'm so happy for you.

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« Reply #16 on: December 11, 2010, 04:32:30 pm »
You are going to be the best Grandad ever!!!.

Grandkids are a blessing, I have another two due next year.

 I still have that photo of you and your boy in my family album, it's a great photo, I think it may something to do with the uniform.. ;)

Congratulations Will, and congratulations to your son and his wife, soon to be parents.

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« Reply #17 on: December 11, 2010, 04:48:09 pm »
am I seeing a Fireman uniform??  If that is what he's wearing -- keep him away from Jan -- she'll be sure to try and have her way with him.

Mike

Too late mike , I had that photo way before you guys ever saw it... :D

Is it wrong to think he's cute when I have a grandaughter his age?.. ;)
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« Reply #18 on: December 11, 2010, 04:55:34 pm »
Great news Will !  Congrats and all that good stuff. 

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« Reply #19 on: December 11, 2010, 06:43:08 pm »
Congratulations Willy! You and your son look like two cute brothers!  :D

My son is getting up there in age and I haven't been crowned "grand" yet.  :D
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« Reply #20 on: December 12, 2010, 12:26:47 am »
time for the "'Happy Dance"'  Granpa.....     you need to decide what he/she will call you...    I have heard some real off the wall ones here in Texas....   mine call me Grandpa......

good move  to scout out "Toys r us"   while you can ....      they grow out of that one pretty quickly...   my 8 yrs old grandson  put  an Apple  laptop on his Christmas list this year......   and the 16 yr old  has a car in his dreams.....

you will have a great time spoiling him/her    enjoy it all

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« Reply #21 on: December 12, 2010, 03:02:41 am »
How old are you again?  I thought you were in your mid-30's.  If so, I thought only people here in KY were grandparents by 35..lol.  I'm kidding.  People here are grandparents by 25.  Congrats and all the best!

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« Reply #22 on: December 12, 2010, 04:30:21 am »
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« Reply #23 on: December 12, 2010, 05:03:58 am »
Congrats.  I have a feeling we're going to be the first generation of openly gay grandparents.  I wish my 22 year old would start producing.  I think it'd be such great fun.  And yes, I was actually married to a woman for a minute right out of highschool. 
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« Reply #24 on: December 12, 2010, 07:55:47 am »


BRAVO Will !

Remember, Grandfathers are just antique little boys.


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« Reply #25 on: December 12, 2010, 08:36:00 am »
Eventhough I've already sent my congratulations to you, I wanted to post here. Will I think this is an amazing change in your life! I'm really excited for you and your entire family. However, I have to add, you are going to be perhaps the best looking grandpa I have ever seen ;)
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« Reply #26 on: December 13, 2010, 11:17:55 am »
Congratulations, Will!  Or should I say "PawPaw"?   :)

Cheers,

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« Reply #27 on: December 13, 2010, 12:27:10 pm »
I don't know how I missed this.  Being a grandparent is the best.  I have 3 grandkids, and spoiling them is my main thing.  Like others have said, the parents get them when we're done, so let 'em eat candy!

Congrats Will! :-*
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« Reply #28 on: December 13, 2010, 12:50:11 pm »
Congrats, you look waaayyyy too young to be a grandfather!!!  And i agree with Miss P, he is a very strapping young man!!!
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« Reply #29 on: December 13, 2010, 11:37:19 pm »
Congratulations, Will!  Or should I say "PawPaw"?   :)


Congrats, again! I've been thinking about names, too. I came up with "Papi Will" but that could be construed otherwise...

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« Reply #30 on: December 17, 2010, 06:34:29 pm »
DAMN Willy, when I met you I was surprised when you told us your a Dad.  You look to young to be a Grandpa. My Partner just turned 40 when he found out he was going to be a Grandpa.  Enjoy the ride.

All my best for You, your Son and especially your Daughter In-Law. She's the gift giver.

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« Reply #31 on: December 18, 2010, 12:32:03 am »
Will, when I met you in Boston, and you were showing off your assets in those tight 501s, I never dreamed you were a daddy, let alone a grandaddy. ;D ;D ;D

I am ecstatic for you, and, I will admit, more than a little envious.

You will be a fantastic grandfather.

Your son is definitely a hunk too. How'd he get so tall? I don't recall you being that tall. ???

Anyway, I am sooo very happy for you.

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« Reply #32 on: December 18, 2010, 10:55:52 am »
Also it just occured to me that my nickname for you "Big Daddy" should be changed.... maybe "Big GranDaddy" hmmm it just doesn't roll of the tongue as easily  :P
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