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Strayboy74 · « **on:** April 05, 2007, 10:38:44 pm »

What is the most extreme thing you would be willing to do for love?

-joseph

milker · « **Reply #1 on:** April 05, 2007, 10:40:50 pm »

edited to remove a statement that may shock people.

allopathicholistic · « **Reply #2 on:** April 05, 2007, 10:42:47 pm »

Even if someone begged me to do that I wouldn't!!!

Sdgirl · « **Reply #3 on:** April 05, 2007, 10:45:51 pm »

Well, I loved someone so much I didn't protect my own body and got infected. Pretty extreme if you ask me.

Strayboy74 · « **Reply #4 on:** April 05, 2007, 10:46:35 pm »

Okay, back to the question... please, no anecdotes, no judgements on the statements of others, no extraneous comments... Please answer the question for yourself, and nobody else.

aupointillimite · « **Reply #5 on:** April 05, 2007, 10:55:08 pm »

Remove all pretense and masks.

allopathicholistic · « **Reply #6 on:** April 05, 2007, 11:04:23 pm »

Okay sorry. If I reeeally loved someone I guess I might take a bullet for them so they could live

I've never loved someone to an extreme

HIVworker · « **Reply #7 on:** April 05, 2007, 11:27:34 pm »

I'd buy them a dollar menu at BK and a coke.

that of fly X-country to be with them..

R

Bucko · « **Reply #8 on:** April 06, 2007, 01:56:51 am »

Quote from: Strayboy74 on April 05, 2007, 10:38:44 pm

What is the most extreme thing you would be willing to do for love?

-joseph

I've done it before and would gladly do it again.

Brent
(Who regrets nothing)

sweetasmeli · « **Reply #9 on:** April 06, 2007, 02:02:56 am »

I would do anything as long as it kept me within the boundaries of what I regard as a healthy relationship - whether that relationship be with a friend, family member or partner.

If you want to know what I regard as a healthy relationship, well that's a whole other question.

Melia

(who has done many a splendid thing for love)

puertorico2006 · « **Reply #10 on:** April 06, 2007, 02:08:49 am »

sorry for the hijack

Melia:

I went to the movies, to a bar, got drunk and your still awake?!?!!?! i thought you were trying to go to bed when i left and that was at 6pm my time (dont know where you live lol)....anyways just curious....

-josh
(who should be sleeping himself but hasnt bothered trying yet)

-p.s.= cant think of an example but when i fall in love (for real) there arent many limits

dtwpuck · « **Reply #11 on:** April 06, 2007, 07:51:26 am »

Clearly, I would sacrifice my financial and emotional well-being.
I'm done sacrificing for a while. There should be nothing in love that feels like a sacrifice.

Strayboy74 · « **Reply #12 on:** April 06, 2007, 12:53:40 pm »

Quote from: puertorico2006 on April 06, 2007, 02:08:49 am

sorry for the hijack

If you were truly sorry, you wouldn't have knowingly done it.

please send someone a personal message, next time.

-joseph

Kellyk · « **Reply #13 on:** April 06, 2007, 01:01:19 pm »

give up my life ;/

allopathicholistic · « **Reply #14 on:** April 06, 2007, 01:05:10 pm »

Quote from: Strayboy74 on April 05, 2007, 10:38:44 pm

What is the most extreme thing you would be willing to do for love?

-joseph

Hi Joseph. When you say "for love" is that the same as TO OBTAIN love or TO RETAIN love or something else?

ademas · « **Reply #15 on:** April 06, 2007, 01:10:05 pm »

I guess it would depend on the nature of the relationship.
I seem much more willing to go to the extreme for family and close friends (people I have a long history with) these days, than for someone I haven't known for a very long time.
Even then, I try to live by the rule of the flight attendant: secure your own oxygen mask first.
My doing stupid and foolish stuff for love profiteth nobody.

bear60 · « **Reply #16 on:** April 06, 2007, 01:25:29 pm »

At this point in my life? Move.

Strayboy74 · « **Reply #17 on:** April 06, 2007, 01:26:25 pm »

Quote from: allopathicholistic on April 06, 2007, 01:05:10 pm

Hi Joseph. When you say "for love" is that the same as TO OBTAIN love or TO RETAIN love or something else?

interesting question. is the answer different for you under either condition?

bt1313 · « **Reply #18 on:** April 06, 2007, 01:31:42 pm »

move from Boston to North Carolina.

Bucko · « **Reply #19 on:** April 06, 2007, 01:51:05 pm »

Quote from: Strayboy74 on April 06, 2007, 01:26:25 pm

interesting question. is the answer different for you under either condition?

Retaining love requires the consequences of compromises unthought of in the quest for obtaining it.

That having been said, I'm a romantic old fool.

Brent
(Who has had many relationships before)

ACinKC · « **Reply #20 on:** April 06, 2007, 03:07:54 pm »

I'd gladly give my life for either of my childrens. As well as my wife.

Hence the term, I love them more than life itself.

allopathicholistic · « **Reply #21 on:** April 07, 2007, 12:41:28 am »

Quote from: ACinKC on April 06, 2007, 03:07:54 pm

I'd gladly give my life for either of my childrens. As well as my wife.

Hence the term, I love them more than life itself.

Powerful

Thank you

jkinatl2 · « **Reply #22 on:** April 07, 2007, 01:52:18 am »

I would be willing to live.

Strayboy74 · « **Reply #23 on:** April 07, 2007, 02:04:07 am »

Quote from: jkinatl2 on April 07, 2007, 01:52:18 am

I would be willing to live.

Wow.

Bucko · « **Reply #24 on:** April 07, 2007, 05:15:00 am »

Quote from: jkinatl2 on April 07, 2007, 01:52:18 am

I would be willing to live.

Maybe that's what I meant to say, but hadn't the mind.

Love,
B

budndallastx · « **Reply #25 on:** April 07, 2007, 10:44:29 am »

At this point of my life, I really don't think I would give up or do anything for love. If you had to do one or the other, then that love is not the right one for you. You need to love the person for who they are, warts and all. Perhaps I am being unrealistic but it has taken many years to come to that conclusion.

Lisa · « **Reply #26 on:** April 07, 2007, 12:43:01 pm »

I am in apparent agreement with AC,Bucko, and Jonathan. I continue to live only for my children,grandchildren, and my beloved Sweetie. There is nothing else that holds me to this earthly plane.

My answer: To continue to live.

Ody · « **Reply #27 on:** April 07, 2007, 12:48:02 pm »

Nothing, I love me and who I am, if someone doesn't love me for that, I probly shouldn't be with them..

Ody

sdcabincrew74 · « **Reply #28 on:** April 07, 2007, 10:02:12 pm »

Allow someone inside the emotional walls that I have surrounded myself with.

allopathicholistic · « **Reply #29 on:** April 07, 2007, 10:48:08 pm »

Quote from: sdcabincrew74 on April 07, 2007, 10:02:12 pm

Allow someone inside the emotional walls that I have surrounded myself with.

SDCabincrew: Hear hear.

Hey Joseph: My longest relationship was 3+ years so I'm not the best-qualified to answer the retain question.

To obtain,

the most extreme I did was when I was around 19 or 20 years old. I went to the house of a one-night-stand months after the fact. Rang the buzzer. No one answered. There was a surveillance camera on me. I hung around for about a minute and gave up. I wanted to see his face again for starters.

CaptCarl · « **Reply #30 on:** April 08, 2007, 12:28:47 am »

I'd pretty much do anything for the person that I love. However, there are a few exceptions. If someone were to do something involving possible jail time, I would not take the fall for them. I will not do anything that will be demeaning to myself. I think that if someone were to ask me to do so, I would seriously question their love for me, and dump them. I don't really have time for bullshit in my life anymore.

CaptCarl

Regretsafew · « **Reply #31 on:** April 09, 2007, 11:26:10 am »

I would relocate

JesusLovesYou · « **Reply #32 on:** April 09, 2007, 12:08:24 pm »

Spend my money on him.

Rhino · « **Reply #33 on:** April 09, 2007, 12:18:34 pm »

I would let them in my heart. I would let them in my mind.

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