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Title: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: MOONLIGHT1114 on March 14, 2008, 08:40:53 pm
Most of us here know Bettytacy, or "BT" as us GFs in the Women's Forum call her.  She has posted in the Dating Thread that her father passed away this morning.

She is one tough girl, and I wanted all of us (guys included) to be able to send our condolences to her.  She just lost her mother last August and a very close friend of hers just died days ago.  Now her father has passed.  She is with family, she is one of four siblings.  Her father had been sick for awhile, but seemed to be a tough old guy.

BT, we all love you.   You make these Forums come alive with your humor and vibrant personality.  Hang in there.

Prayers go out  to you and your family.   :'(

~ Cindy
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Matty the Damned on March 14, 2008, 08:59:29 pm
Matty the Damned sends his condolences to you and yours Betty,

MtD
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Jody on March 14, 2008, 09:06:31 pm
Sending condolences your way Betty, to you and your family.

Jody
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: J.R.E. on March 14, 2008, 09:14:45 pm
Dear Betty,

My deepest condolences in the loss of your father. Thoughts going out to you, during this difficult time...


Ray




Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Queen Tokelove on March 14, 2008, 09:15:50 pm
Betty, You know I love you, girl. I know you are feeling it about now and are probably smashing some shit up.Just get it all out and when you feel better, come back to us. (HUGS)
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: BlueMoon on March 14, 2008, 09:33:02 pm
 :(
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Assurbanipal on March 14, 2008, 09:35:06 pm
Betty

Your many kindnesses on this site have helped a lot of us -- hope these condolences help lessen the load a ltiny bit.

A
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Teresa on March 14, 2008, 09:53:13 pm
Betty, So sorry for the loss of your dad and friend. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs
Teresa
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Mouse on March 14, 2008, 09:59:12 pm
I'm so sorry Betty. You don't deserve a bit of the horrible things that have been happening to you lately. We're all here for you to help you get through them though. <3
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Andy Velez on March 14, 2008, 10:01:02 pm
Sending you condolences and best regards during this sad time, Betty. May you find comfort in those around you as well as from your friends here.

Hugs,
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: RapidRod on March 14, 2008, 10:07:02 pm
Betty my deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss.

Rodney
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Dachshund on March 14, 2008, 10:10:21 pm
Deepest condolences dear Betty.

Hal
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: sharkdiver on March 14, 2008, 10:17:44 pm
Sending love to you and your family

Sharkie
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: BT65 on March 14, 2008, 10:33:43 pm
Thanks to everyone for the support.  I'm doing alright.  It's just a little unbelieveable that such things (death) happen so close together.  My oldest sister found my dad on his bathroom floor around 8 something this morning and called me sobbing.  The Hospice nurse got there and pronounced him dead at 9:10.  So, I went to my friend's memorial, which was lovely, then headed up to my dad's.  The left side of his face was pretty bruised up from whatever he hit it on when he hit the floor, probably the sink.  It's just kind of overwhelming.  But life goes on.  Thanks again.

Edited to add: There are four of us siblings.  But thanks, Cindy.
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: ademas on March 14, 2008, 10:34:50 pm
I'm so sorry to hear this, Betty.
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Peace.
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: komnaes on March 14, 2008, 10:50:31 pm
Betty dear, so sorry to hear the news. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Shaun
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: 31diver on March 14, 2008, 11:18:37 pm
Betty,
My deepest condolences and rest assured I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
Leo
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 14, 2008, 11:22:47 pm
Sorry about this, my newest, dearest buddy.  I just sent you a PM.
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: sanitex on March 14, 2008, 11:45:17 pm
from sanitex thailand,i'm very sorry to your dad death,may his soul rest in perfect peace i pray,and now he'll be enjoying with the angels of the most higher Amen,and also my prayer to you that,GOD will surely protect you throught your internal life i pray.amen
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: aztecan on March 15, 2008, 12:03:59 am
Betty,

My deepest sympaties and condolences for you and your family during this tough time.

You will be in my thoughts and heart.

Mark
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Robert on March 15, 2008, 01:14:08 am
Betty

My sincere condolences.  YOu care so much for all of us here at Aidsmeds, your loss touches us deeply. 

robert
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Jeff G on March 15, 2008, 01:24:28 am
 my condolences to you. You sure seem to be surrounded by lots of love in this forum. I'm newbie here but I hope I have the opportunity to get to know you better...Jeff   
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: mjmel on March 15, 2008, 04:55:49 am
Very hard to lose two close to you. Condolences.

Mike
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: scud44 on March 15, 2008, 05:32:28 am
My heartfelt condolences  to you and your family, Betty,
May the Angels smile upon your father

Regards
Scuddles
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: DanielMark on March 15, 2008, 06:45:21 am
My condolences to you and your loved ones, Betty.

Daniel
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Longislander on March 15, 2008, 07:11:22 am
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.  Take good care of yourself through all of this.

Paul
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: leatherman on March 15, 2008, 08:08:49 am
Betty,

I'm so sorry to hear about your Father. For all the love and support you've been sending me thru my crisis, I'm sending love and support right back at ya!  :-*

mikie
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Iggy on March 15, 2008, 08:50:21 am
Betty,

Jeromy and my deepest condolences to you and your family at this time.

Mark
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Snowangel on March 15, 2008, 09:30:53 am
Betty- I am so sorry for everything that has happened lately.
I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Thanks for posting to let us know you are doing alright.
Snow
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: pozguy75 on March 15, 2008, 10:12:15 am
Hey BT, my thoughts and condolences are with you today. I am sorry to hear about your loss.
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: bear60 on March 15, 2008, 10:12:44 am
Betty
I am sending my condolences to you in this difficult time.  I pray for peace.
Joel
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: CaptCarl on March 15, 2008, 10:53:19 am
BT,
   Please accept my condolences in the passing of your father. You and your family will be in my prayers to help you get through a difficult time.

CaptCarl
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Texan38 on March 15, 2008, 11:21:08 am
Betty, my sincerest condolences go out to you and your family.

Mark
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Dachshund on March 15, 2008, 12:00:38 pm
Hey Betty Timberly just called me after viewing your post. He was not able to log in and wanted me to make sure you knew he was thinking of you. he sends his condolences and prayers.
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: StacheBC on March 15, 2008, 12:15:44 pm
Betty, a big hug to you. Deep condolences to you and yours.

StacheBC
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: AlanBama on March 15, 2008, 12:28:19 pm
Dearest Betty,

I am so sorry about your Dad.....you've had more than your fair share of bad news lately.

You know I love you, and you are in my prayers.

hugs,

Alan   :-*
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: quarterhorsetn on March 15, 2008, 02:10:19 pm
Betty,

I am so sorry for all the losses you have had to deal with lately. You are in my thoughts.

Brian
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: allopathicholistic on March 15, 2008, 06:42:57 pm
Betty, my heart goes out to you again. Love is forever and love surrounds you.

Allo
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: BT65 on March 15, 2008, 08:39:43 pm
Tomorrow I'm picking my sister up who's flying in from Phoenix at 9:10 a.m.  Then we sibs have to go to the funeral home at 1:00 to put the memorial service together.  It's just a little overwhelming. 

Thank Timmy for me, Dachs.  And thank you all for your support.  It means the world to me.  Kisses to you all.
I'm doing alright, really.  Just have to accept things for what they are and move on.
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: BT65 on March 18, 2008, 04:43:38 pm
My dad had a lovely service today.  The military did a color guard at the end.  Now, we have the house, which the bank is going to foreclose on, to go through and sort through 50+ years of stuff.  Ugh.
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Jeff G on March 18, 2008, 09:36:59 pm
 I will be thinking of you and sending a little energy your way. My hopes are that you will soon be able to sit and reflect on the good things. Be strong and let us hear how you are doing....Jeff
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: sharkdiver on March 18, 2008, 10:27:01 pm
I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you today.

Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: MarkB on March 19, 2008, 09:43:06 am
Hello Betty,

Although we don't know each other, may I too extend my condolences to you and your family at this time.  I was touched when I read:

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Now, we have the house [...] to go through and sort through 50+ years of stuff.  Ugh.

Last June I had to do just the same, when my parents' house had to be returned to its owners. I don't know if the house you mention was the one you were brought up in, but going through those many years of stored memory is another kind of bereavement: I will be thinking of you.

A x
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: shadowfluid on March 19, 2008, 01:42:49 pm
Sending you good vibes BT!
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: pozattitude on March 19, 2008, 06:08:13 pm
Betty,

I am so sorry for your loss, I just found out about your dad.

 :'(
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Jeffreyj on March 20, 2008, 03:13:44 am
Sorry to hear this Betty. Hang in there girl. My heart felt condolances.
With Love,
Jeff
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: PaulinNJ on June 09, 2009, 04:31:49 pm
 ???
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: BT65 on June 09, 2009, 08:17:41 pm
Um, o.k., this thread is over a year old. ::)

Edited to add:  Thanks anyway, Paul.
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Miss Philicia on June 10, 2009, 01:26:30 pm
LOL
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: Queen Tokelove on June 11, 2009, 08:56:36 pm
Yeah, it is and it threw me off when I saw it. But it shows you are still loved, even a year later. *sticks a sucker in my mouth and imitates Kojak* "who loves ya, baby?" You know your girls do!!!!
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: MOONLIGHT1114 on June 12, 2009, 05:02:37 pm
It really threw ME off cause I started this thread.  A year ago.   :)

I am thinking about you, Betty, with regards to the loss of your friend recently.  Its a shame, sorry, GF.

~Cindy
Title: Re: Prayers go out to our Bettytacy today
Post by: BT65 on June 12, 2009, 09:17:18 pm
Anyone who read Moonlight's response, yeah, another friend of mine died.  I knew him from the 12-step fellowship I belong to.  He was on his Harley, on his way to one of his granddaughter's birthdays.  He was on the Indiana toll road, and some deer went in front of him.  He slammed into one of them, which threw him off him bike.  He died at the scene of massive head trauma.  R.I.P. Paul S.