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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: 5555 on November 02, 2011, 10:55:23 am

Title: problem with me
Post by: 5555 on November 02, 2011, 10:55:23 am
firs sorry for my pooor english this is my situation before nine weeks gave protected oral sex on another man and he did overlay rubbing around my anus it stimulates penetration but such would not have felt poroblema worry is that there is no small hole. Arthritis Research Fund because I have four weeks is active and pritesnyavayam this is not early HIV infection. can arthritis to delay serconvertion i had 3 testt 4 week duo test,7.5 elisa and 9week eclia test all they negative can i move on
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: Andy Velez on November 02, 2011, 11:08:42 am
If I am understanding you correctly you gave oral sex to another man and he rubbed his penis around your anus but without penetration. And in both activities he was wearing a condom.

Even if he had not had a condom on when you gave oral or when he rubbed against your anus  those would not have been risks for HIV.

Only unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse are confirmed risks for HIV transmission sexually.

It's no surprise that you tested negative. If I understood your activities correctly then there was no risk and there is no need for further testing.

Just make sure you always use condoms for intercourse and you will be well protected sexually.
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: 5555 on November 02, 2011, 11:20:15 am
thanks a lot if hi had some precum iam worried about my arthritis because this is for my first time and last
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: 5555 on November 02, 2011, 11:21:52 am
or small  hole of condom
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: Andy Velez on November 02, 2011, 11:29:24 am
That's a myth about small holes in condoms. When a condom fails/breaks it's very apparent because the entire thing ends up looking like a hoop with a lot of fringe on the penis.

Your arthritis would not affect the accuracy of your test. And again, you didn't need to test because you were not at risk.

You are worrying needlessly. I wonder if you are married or have a partner or are new to this sex, because this all seems like a lot of guilt and anxiety to me without any basis in HIV science.
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: 5555 on November 02, 2011, 12:18:05 pm
thaks for all andy  but a think to tkae my final test at the 12week do you think will be negative yes i am married and meaby for this iam scared sorry again form my poor english iam from bulgaria east europa.again my reumathoid arthritiis not affect hiv test  it is good indicator all the best
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: 5555 on November 02, 2011, 12:49:19 pm
iam start  worried because my  reumhatoide arthritis start active in 4 week after this incident i take some pills after 3days i was fine after that i star worried and i think this is from  early hiv infection  and i get my first test now i waitting for my 12week test and i read in internet ra can delay window period
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: Andy Velez on November 02, 2011, 03:10:39 pm
Rheumatoid arthritis is not a symptom of HIV infection. You did not have a risk for HIV and yes, I expect you to test negative. 
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: 5555 on November 03, 2011, 01:26:01 am
ok thanks again  do you see 9 week negative turn in 12 week positive i  had  2week more for my finale test
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: RapidRod on November 03, 2011, 04:34:09 am
What part of what Andy said is it you don't comprehend? YOU NEVER HAD A RISK.
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: Andy Velez on November 03, 2011, 08:54:58 am
If there had been an actual risk, then a negative at 9 weeks would strongly point towards to testing negative at 3 months.

But you DIDN'T have a risk so you getting tested is strictly for your peace of mind and you are certainly going to continue to test negative.
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: 5555 on November 03, 2011, 12:27:37 pm
thanks a lot  andy and ron
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: Andy Velez on November 03, 2011, 12:55:28 pm
You're welcome. Get on with your life.
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: 5555 on November 19, 2011, 10:10:03 am
i get my test almost 11week 75days negative one more week to 12week
Title: Re: problem with me
Post by: Ann on November 19, 2011, 10:19:13 am
5,

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection.

You do NOT need further testing.

You are conclusively hiv negative.

You do NOT have hiv!!!

If you read the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


Please consider yourself warned!

Ann