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Title: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: where_is_faith on May 03, 2007, 09:01:43 am
I had sex with a prostitude, intercourse 3 times, and deep kissed.. but I have condom on, am I safe ?
Can deep kiss transmit HIV?
How long should I wait to get a test?
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: RapidRod on May 03, 2007, 09:03:51 am
You did not have a risk and you do not need to test. Protected sex is just that, protected.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: where_is_faith on May 03, 2007, 09:11:47 am
Hi rapidrod:
I have deep kiss with her, I dont know for sure but we brush our teeth beforehand, we were in a hotel,
I am now so frustrating about this event.

we use durex condom, I dont know about the manufacture date, she the pro provide it.
how much chance I will have the HIV from her?
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: RapidRod on May 03, 2007, 09:19:31 am
You are not going to get infected via deep kissing. It doesn't matter about the condom as long as it wasn't lamb skin and it didn't fail.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: ACinKC on May 03, 2007, 09:40:32 am
You were protected during sex you dont have any worries for HIV transmission from kissing either.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: Andy Velez on May 03, 2007, 11:52:07 am
Condoms provide very effective protection. Kissing does not present a risk for HIV transmission.

You absolutely were not at risk in this incident.

There's no need for worrying nor for testing. Period.

Get on with your life and always, always keep using condoms when you have intercourse. They do the job.

Cheers,
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: where_is_faith on May 05, 2007, 05:22:22 am
Condoms provide very effective protection. Kissing does not present a risk for HIV transmission.
You absolutely were not at risk in this incident.
There's no need for worrying nor for testing. Period.
Get on with your life and always, always keep using condoms when you have intercourse. They do the job.
Cheers,

Hi Andy:
I also use my index finger to masturbate her vagina for about 3 minutes top.
I also have a question, if I insist for HIV testing, I have a weak body, I get sick often, and I stay up late for 3 years, often goto bed after 3 o'clock everynight. so my body situation is weak, will this affect my testing result?
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: RapidRod on May 05, 2007, 05:26:59 am
It seems as though you aren't understanding the replies that you have been given. YOU WERE NOT AT RISK AND YOU DON'T NEED TO TEST. Unless you got your finger to climax, fingering is not a risk.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: where_is_faith on May 06, 2007, 12:33:15 pm
It seems as though you aren't understanding the replies that you have been given. YOU WERE NOT AT RISK AND YOU DON'T NEED TO TEST. Unless you got your finger to climax, fingering is not a risk.

Hi Rod:
I am just afraid of the chance of getting a unknow wound in my finger, will this be a risk?
thanks
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: RapidRod on May 06, 2007, 02:29:47 pm
NO it will not be a risk if you have a hangnail, blister, splinter that was just removed, paper cuts or other nicks. If you don't have stitches in your finger, then you don't have nothing to worry about.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: anxiousaussie on May 07, 2007, 07:16:22 am
Dear Where is Faith

You played it safe, you wore a condom. As told previously, you have not placed yourself at risk in this situation. Well done!! Anymore time you spend pondering over this situation is pointless. If you cant accept this fact, do yourself a favour and get tested so you can move on.

Cheers

AA
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: RapidRod on May 07, 2007, 08:04:42 am
anxiousaussie, do not post in any other thread other than your own. 
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: Andy Velez on May 07, 2007, 08:28:35 am
Faith, your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV. If they continue you should discuss them with a doctor.

Read the lesson on Transmission on this site. There's a link to it in the Welcome thread which opens this section. You get all the basics there.

You are worrying needlessly. Really. Get on with your life.

Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: where_is_faith on May 12, 2007, 03:31:44 pm
Hi Andy:
I have read about your papers about AIDS and HIV, you are a good proactive activitist speaker for publics.
Shame of me, I have lost sleep for 2 weeks since the lousy event.
I do not intend to bother you and Rod, but I really believe I crossed the line and gone very far, now that I can not even try to face myself, I knew I am a kind of psychopath-prone right now this situation, I think the only way to calm myself down is to get tested, now, my question is, what is the time frame to get a proper accurate result??? I know the test is based on whether our body's self-immunity system will generate some chemical stuffs react to the virus or not.. I have to admit I got a weak body, and the point is,I dont smoke, but I drink once a while withcouple of old friends, and I dont just lost sleep for 2 weeks, I have the record which the doctor can tracked back 3 years ago to prove I do not have a weathly life style.. I am active at night but at day time I am like a rat. WIll my weak body need a longer TIME FRAME to get a proper test?

Thank you experts.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: Andy Velez on May 12, 2007, 03:58:41 pm
Of course there's no need for you to get tested since you weren't at risk.

But if you insist on doing it anyway then you should test at 13 weeks after your most recent sexual incident. Nothing you have reported about your health indicates you wouldn't get at an accurate result at that point.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: where_is_faith on May 14, 2007, 02:36:39 pm
It is always feel bad and worried about testing.
but I will try anyway.
Damn, I hope there are no virus in this existed world.. so no one suffers.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: where_is_faith on June 01, 2007, 03:04:00 pm
Tonight I have a couple drinks with a old friend in a bar.
He and his "pals" smokes weeds and I knew them smokes tonight too, and you know those who smokes weeds are retarded and have "no consciousness" of what they are doing.....

I was in the toilet shitting, and have my ass and penis exposed, and just in the next toilet room, there are one of his pal are pissing ........( even although the room are seperated, the foot of wall is still opened..) and the urine of him has drip on my ass and I dont know, maybe my penis' openning too.... I felt the warm while I was wipping my buttock....

Darn it, I felt dirty and I have no idea, I was wearing my favorite shirt!!
Afterward, I had not lose my mind and go home, then type this message of worry.

a good amount of dirty toilet urine are harmful to our body? AIDS are transmitted via urine?
thank you.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: RapidRod on June 01, 2007, 03:44:59 pm
You need serious professional mental health help. Urine is not infectious.
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: Matty the Damned on June 01, 2007, 06:18:36 pm
Tonight I have a couple drinks with a old friend in a bar.
He and his "pals" smokes weeds and I knew them smokes tonight too, and you know those who smokes weeds are retarded and have "no consciousness" of what they are doing.....

I was in the toilet shitting, and have my ass and penis exposed, and just in the next toilet room, there are one of his pal are pissing ........( even although the room are seperated, the foot of wall is still opened..) and the urine of him has drip on my ass and I dont know, maybe my penis' openning too.... I felt the warm while I was wipping my buttock....

Darn it, I felt dirty and I have no idea, I was wearing my favorite shirt!!
Afterward, I had not lose my mind and go home, then type this message of worry.

a good amount of dirty toilet urine are harmful to our body? AIDS are transmitted via urine?
thank you.


No HIV cannot be transmitted via urine.

Quite honestly this is ridiculous. If you can't get past your fears about HIV infection you should do as Roddles suggests and seek the services of a mental health professional. We cannot provide you with that sort of support here.

As for your views about people who smoke marijuana, kindly keep them to yourself. Nobody here is even remotely interested in your ignorant opinions.

MtD
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: Bucko on June 02, 2007, 12:49:57 am
Too bad about the shirt, darling.

Brent
(Who knows that urine is not infectious)
Title: Re: I had sex with a prostitude... I am so WORRIED!!!
Post by: Ann on March 04, 2008, 03:17:26 am
where,

I deleted a post you left in the Mental Health forum. As someone who is not hiv positive, you should not be posting anywhere in these forums other than here in your own thread in the Am I Infected forum.

Please read the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) and abide by our forum posting guidelines.

Please consider yourself warned.

Ann