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Title: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 05, 2012, 09:20:19 am
Hi Ann I am from Venezuela and very scared, I always do checks for HIV and always negative, I apologize for my English use the translator, I hope you understand.

I am very very worried about a possible risk, read the forum and I know quite cunnilingus discarded as a possible infection, but my case is a bit particular.

I had a meeting with a friend first I did oral sex on her clitoris and part of his lips for a minute or two, I had a big bite on the side of the language then used for vaginal protection.

What has me worried is that a week came a cold with a slight fever and left me mouth sores, were enough in the first language and then came two or three really big on the cheek and inside lips these lasted me a month, did not go to the doctor and not try because he always walked alone, these lasted a month with much pain and a slight fever, I am currently a fatal headache a month ago, I am very worried about it the doctor can be nerve but are very strong.

Like many I started researching and found a single forum case identical to my symptoms with positive results I am very frightened indeed are symptoms identical to those of this guy except that I did not perform the test, I'm terrified my positive result will also ?
http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=39910.0

I have mierdo that the virus has entered through the wound on the tongue, and I still have dolore head I can not stand, I'm infected? because I have these symptoms equal to the member?

Please give very good answers Ann I hope you help me please. I hope you understand my story for my bad English.

thanks
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: RapidRod on July 05, 2012, 09:38:43 am
It doesn't matter if you had a canker sore or not. You never had an exposure.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 05, 2012, 09:45:24 am
Because I had all the symptoms similar to that boy, please I'm terrified, thanks for your response RapidRod.
Please view my other symptoms were real Ann believes Please please.
I know the risk is low but not impossible.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: RapidRod on July 05, 2012, 09:48:47 am
Symptoms or lack of will never tell you anything at you had an exposure. You did not have an exposure. Saliva contains over a dozen different enzymes and proteins that inhibits HIV transmission. Again, you never had an exposure.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 05, 2012, 10:05:50 am
I do not want to break the rules of the forum but it says that there are two known cases of transmission by cunnilingus, perhaps because I am one really confirmed I had the same symptoms that the poz guy.
My doctor looked at my thrush and gave me to do the test am terrified.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ann on July 05, 2012, 10:36:18 am

Like many I started researching and found a single forum case identical to my symptoms with positive results I am very frightened indeed are symptoms identical to those of this guy except that I did not perform the test, I'm terrified my positive result will also ?
http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=39910.0


Ramon,

VariGam did not tell the truth about being hiv positive. He was NOT hiv positive. He was banned from the forums after we discovered his lie. Please read the ENTIRE thread.

You have NOT had a risk for hiv infection. Cunnilingus is NOT a risk.

Are you aware that we have a Spanish language forum? Estoy Infectadao (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?board=25.0). You may feel more comfortable posting there.

VariGam no dijo la verdad acerca de ser positivo de Vih. El no fue positivo de vih. Fue prohibido de los foros después de que descubriéramos su mentira. Lea por favor el hilo ENTERO.

Usted no ha tenido un riesgo para la infección de Vih. Cunnilingus no es un riesgo.

¿Está enterado que tenemos un foro español del idioma? Estoy Infectadao  (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?board=25.0). Puede sentirse anunciar más cómodo allí.

Ann
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 05, 2012, 11:26:49 am
Ann thank you very much the truth, I did not read the whole post because I was depressed and I almost fainted.
I will not continue with questions about situations without risk because I understand the forum rules, the truth if I saw the other forum in Spanish but honestly I do not put links or literature sources such as do you.

1 - If I were so kind and let me explain why you could not risk other than cunnilingus saliva inhibits the virus that got it, I saw that other members you named them something of the clitoris and labia, its fluids are as harmless as saliva or tears, this is true because I did not understand.

2 - Whether you have an open wound on the side of the tongue, of course thank you very much for everything.

3 - This happened 3 months ago and my doctor recommended the test and I do, there is a chance of being poz for more to be small?

Thanks to the last post I may first, the truth entrusted traveled a lot in this forum and others like thebody are actually doing shit, pardon the word but they are very outdated.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 05, 2012, 12:49:29 pm
You did not have a risk as Ann has already told you.

Since you are so worried, why don't you do what your doctor said and get tested? It's strictly for your peace of mind and your getting a negative result is a foregone conclusion. Sometimes people need that negative result to let go of an unwarranted worry about HIV as is true in your case.
Title: Yo también tenía la misma duda
Post by: mirko22 on July 05, 2012, 01:03:24 pm
Yo también tenía la misma duda
Title: Perdón por escrbir
Post by: mirko22 on July 05, 2012, 01:17:59 pm
Yo también tenía la misma duda, perdón señor Andy me deje de llevar por el impulso no lo hago más.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 05, 2012, 01:27:50 pm
Estas preocupando innecesario, hombre.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 05, 2012, 05:38:18 pm
Sorry your case but I had many symptoms, such as non-healing ulcers and headaches over a month, Andy understand that your answers are just as valid as those of Ann but she gave an explanation in another post you could let me respond, much thanks.

Ann thank you very much the truth, I did not read the whole post because I was depressed and I almost fainted.
I will not continue with questions about situations without risk because I understand the forum rules, the truth if I saw the other forum in Spanish but honestly I do not put links or literature sources such as do you.

1 - If I were so kind and let me explain why you could not risk other than cunnilingus saliva inhibits the virus that got it, I saw that other members you named them something of the clitoris and labia, its fluids are as harmless as saliva or tears, this is true because I did not understand.

2 - Whether you have an open wound on the side of the tongue, of course thank you very much for everything.

3 - This happened 3 months ago and my doctor recommended the test and I do, there is a chance of being poz for more to be small?

Thanks to the last post I may first, the truth entrusted traveled a lot in this forum and others like thebody are actually doing shit, pardon the word but they are very outdated.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 05, 2012, 06:20:58 pm
Mirko, es una norma aqui que los miembres solamente pueden escribir en su hilo y no en los hilos de los otros miembres. Por favor no hagalo otra vez.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 05, 2012, 08:02:07 pm
Ann Please await your response and opinion. Thank you.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: RapidRod on July 05, 2012, 08:14:21 pm
Ann already advised you, that you never had an exposure.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 06, 2012, 08:16:42 am
Please now that you are connected Ann can help me with questions
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ann on July 06, 2012, 09:14:45 am
Ramon,

Patience! I'm going to translate the information on cunnilingus, but I have other things to do first.

You did not have a risk and will have to wait for the explanation of why you were not at risk.

¡Paciencia! Traduciré la información en el cunnilingus, pero tengo otras cosas para hacer primero.

Usted no tuvo un riesgo y tendrá que esperar la explicación de por qué usted no estuvo en riesgo.

Ann
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 06, 2012, 09:47:02 am
Thank you very much Ann.

I will wait to take time and explain to me, no problem.
Thank you so much from his words and give me peace of mind.

goodbye
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 08, 2012, 11:12:19 am
I am very concerned, I think of the possibility that something went wrong.

After the situation had a week with a cold sores, canker doubted more than a month after I was either 1 or 2 weeks and shot a headache that will not stop until today took over a month and a half with them.

I think something I can go wrong, maybe the virus entered through the wound in her tongue from her clit and lips, I'm very confused and neuralgia-like pains are not going with the treatment that the doctor gave me.

Is to use protection, but the flu with cold, and this type headache meningitis have me very worried. On Tuesday I will realize I am very scared test.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 08, 2012, 11:24:01 am
Yes, well fears and doubts and guessing aren't facts. As you have already been told you did not have a risk for HIV.

Nothing you are worrying about symptomatically is in any way HIV specific.

Scared notwithstanding, you are going to test negative.

At this point there is nothing more we can do for you about your fears. Get tested and collect the inevitable negative result.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 10, 2012, 12:08:53 am
Thanks for responding I will test tomorrow, I am very nervous and are 10 weeks of contact and follow evil, do not understand why this flu with large, painful ulcers, and now this headache and neck do not leave me alone, I know I was told that this quiet and I had no risk.

I just want to ask if there is little chance of licking her clit and lips with a wound in the language I'm scared, really do not want surprises if I am exposed and I have a chance please tell me if she had a high viral load and I was low defenses, also'll post the result after tomorrow, please help.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: RapidRod on July 10, 2012, 05:12:24 am
■Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result,  or no-risk situation will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 10, 2012, 08:31:31 am
Sorry I'm just very concerned, I do not suspend the forum Please do not wanna be a nuisance, the only thing that worries me is my wound on the tongue.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 10, 2012, 08:34:09 am
Yes, well fears and doubts and guessing aren't facts. As you have already been told you did not have a risk for HIV.

Nothing you are worrying about symptomatically is in any way HIV specific.

Scared notwithstanding, you are going to test negative.

At this point there is nothing more we can do for you about your fears. Get tested and collect the inevitable negative result.

You are still under that warning. There's nothing new to add except to repeat that we expect you to test negative.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 10, 2012, 08:59:20 am
Sorry Mr. Velez
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 10, 2012, 10:01:12 am
OK. Be patient until you get what we expect to be a negative result.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 11, 2012, 11:59:04 am
Hi moderators, I do the test yesterday I delivered in 4 days.

I am very nervous, I hope everything goes well, Ann told me to explain when to tell time because I could not get infected with the fluids of the lips and clitoris but did not know it's a busy person.

I read something about it but I fear that she would have a high viral load and I bite my tongue for one day, I have much fear of this flu disease that gave me a week and the headaches that do not stop, promises that this is the last post to get my result.

Thank you very much for the help and advice they gave me.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 11, 2012, 12:21:39 pm
Fortunately fears aren't facts. And your fears about the vaginal fluids are unfounded because the area of the vagina where HIV can be found in fluids is high up in the cervical area.

The vaginal lips and the clitoris are NOT where HIV is found.

We continue to expect you to test negative, your nervousness notwithstanding.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 16, 2012, 05:54:39 pm
Lords were right to 11 weeks almost negative for HIV, along with a full panel on the various sexually transmitted diseases, fortunately was right fears are not facts.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 16, 2012, 06:19:04 pm
That's no surprise here but it certainly is always a happy thing to get a negative result.

Now take a breath and get on with your life. You are HIV negative. End of story.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 16, 2012, 06:41:43 pm
Thank you very much Mr. Velez, Ann, Rapidrop, I congratulate them for their work here forever, it really is the only forum on HIV prevention at all serious, I always recommend, are the greatest thing there is.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Andy Velez on July 17, 2012, 08:34:32 am
You're welcome, Ramon. Now get on with your life and remember to always use condoms properly for vaginal and anal intercourse to protect your HIV negative status.

On with your life now...
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ramon on July 20, 2012, 12:21:56 am
Hello again to get back a thousand pardons, the truth was happy and comfortable with the outcome of 11 weeks, but my doctor tells me I must repeat at 13 weeks because my result is not conclusive yet, chances are that it becomes positive after 11 weeks.
Diculpen and thanks.
Title: Re: cunnilingus and canker
Post by: Ann on July 20, 2012, 01:00:48 am
Ramon,

I don't give a shit what your doctor told you - I'm telling you that you are conclusively hiv negative....

... because you NEVER HAD A RISK IN THE FIRST PLACE.

You do not have hiv.


If you read the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

Quote

Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


Please consider yourself warned!

Ann