Author Topic: What are you doing for "V" Day? (Read 8335 times)

HollyStar · « **on:** February 12, 2008, 10:26:38 pm »

Hi everyone,

Being as I'm pretty broke and can't do too much for my boyfriend, I plan on making a meal out of the ordinary and maybe even giving him some ass, if he's nice, LOL. What is everyone else doing?

HAPPY V DAY

minismom · « **Reply #1 on:** February 12, 2008, 10:38:44 pm »

If we can't get out tomorrow because of the snow, we'll be going grocery shopping on Thursday - it's the only day we're not supposed to have snow. Either way, we've invited my mom over for supper. My dad is out of town working and won't be home until the end of the month. We got her a gift and the kids made her Valentine Cards. Not sure what i'll cook, but it'll be something that everyone will eat. Most likely, some good hometown southern cooking: red beans, rice, cornbread, sausage, pecan pie. Or, seafood gumbo.

As far as a gift for hubby? He has me, what else could he possible want?

Kids will also be making Valentines for the Meals on Wheels folks to pass out to the senior citizens when they deliver their meals. Will bring cookies to the police department, too.

Mum

leatherman · « **Reply #2 on:** February 12, 2008, 11:02:50 pm »

our v day is turning out kinda weird this year; but no weirder than usual.

A friend of mine is traveling to SC this weekend and passing right through my old hometime in NC, so I'm catching a ride.

As all of my family members' bdays fall between feb 15 and mar 23 (including mine!), and i missed a trip home at christmas (which made my mom mad LOL), this is a perfect chance to visit home. Only catch - we're living OH at noon on valentines day.

My honey ain't happy but he understands.

To add to the confusion, we are throwing in our yearly "valentines day meal from 'outback' and mystery fever" early.

See, usually, we have a nice meal at 'outback' and for the last three years, I ended up having a 4-9 day fever afterwards.

Trips to the hospital, tests, no conclusions. Just a mystery fever

sorta normal for me and my hiv.

This year since I'm going on that trip, we talked tonight about doing the outback trip early. Then three hours later, the other half has developed a fever!

Not so mysterious though. he's hiv- and this is just some flu that been going around at his work. We thought he had licked it almost a week ago; but obviously not.

Since I don't need any germy VD (valentines day, not the disease) kisses from him, it's just as well that I'm going out of town soon.

Until then, it's no outback, just meds and plenty of fluids - and a lot of lysol spray to stop my germ phobia. ROFL

but we love each other and that's all that matters

mikie

Jim says cough, cough and Happy Valentines Day to y'all too.

Oceanbeach · « **Reply #3 on:** February 13, 2008, 03:18:28 am »

Hey Hollystar,

I may change the oil in the car or defrost the fridge... if anything more exciting happens, I will skate home because Hell froze over

Have the best day
Michael

anniebc · « **Reply #4 on:** February 13, 2008, 04:25:50 am »

Friday we have some eldery residents from the local nursing home coming for a cuppa and to spend some time with the animals, so Valentines day will be spend mucking out the holding pens and paddocks..(so they don't step in anything..

)..but at least I will be with the ones I love..

I hope you all have a good day and lots of heart shaped chocolates.

Hugs
Jan

fearless · « **Reply #5 on:** February 13, 2008, 05:08:55 am »

I've just cleared a huge space out front so that the trucks can deliver the roses.

Guess I'll just stay in and read all the cards and eat all the chocolates I receive.

I've never received anything for V day, even during the 10 years when I was in a relationship. I just know this year is gonna be different.

anniebc · « **Reply #6 on:** February 13, 2008, 05:19:03 am »

Just for you Steve...I love the new Avatar.

Happy Valentines day.
Hugs
Jan

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BT65 · « **Reply #7 on:** February 13, 2008, 08:03:31 am »

Jan, can you ship those to me?

bosco · « **Reply #8 on:** February 13, 2008, 09:17:41 am »

Well I 'm sure not getting any ass or even a meal, unless I cook it myself...so I'll probably read or surf the web.

minismom · « **Reply #9 on:** February 13, 2008, 09:23:44 am »

Ok, Valentine plans have now been confirmed. I'll be going grocery shopping

My mom said she'll be going elsewhere for dinner, so it'll just be the 8 of us, at home, putting away groceries. Maybe we'll go out for lunch or something. I hate going out at night. It's way too crowded. I'm in a bummy mood $:-\$

Happy Valentine's Day to all my fellow AIDSmed-ers! Hope you find love, peace, happiness, and fullfillment, even if it's with yourself.

mum

Dan J. · « **Reply #10 on:** February 13, 2008, 09:46:58 am »

not much. no cards or candy or special dinners, & no flowers. Just going to cuddle with my schnauzer and watch bad tv.

heartforyou · « **Reply #11 on:** February 13, 2008, 10:20:47 am »

5000 miles of distance isn't gone help to cuddle...

Hermie

John2038 · « **Reply #12 on:** February 13, 2008, 10:52:19 am »

I will have a dinner and sleep with my virus as usual.

jabez · « **Reply #13 on:** February 13, 2008, 10:47:47 pm »

LOL! ... Same here, I'm taking my Virus out to dinner.

Oceanbeach · « **Reply #14 on:** February 13, 2008, 10:57:41 pm »

I'm still waiting for Stevie Nicks to return my call

Have the best day
Michael

HollyStar · « **Reply #15 on:** February 14, 2008, 12:08:32 am »

Quote from: John2038 on February 13, 2008, 10:52:19 am

I will have a dinner and sleep with my virus as usual.

LMFAO

Well, I had to cut the out of the ordinary meal but it will be good anyway.

Michael, any chance you can change my oil too (in my car)? LOL You know we're only a county away. And good luck on that phone call.

weasel · « **Reply #16 on:** February 14, 2008, 08:29:53 am »

well My honey of 28 years asked if i would JUST be nice to him for one day ! How nize !
Is this a clue ? , no I do not think so .
I offered chocolates , but the news says beware of WORMS ! OH MY !
We will be putting down solid oak flooring ,reclaimed . in the big room !
I may make Brownies with vanilla ice cream . Been on Atkins 7 weeks ! I have lost 20 pounds of my middle !
I seem to be craving food ? how odd !
spost to be warmer today , then the wind ! We are a winter wonderland of frozen ice trees with
icicles dangling from everything !
I will go out and de-snow Bob's truck this morning , take a pill and be NIZE !
happy V day , Karl

DanielMark · « **Reply #17 on:** February 14, 2008, 08:45:18 am »

Well, my boyfriend is working today, but was here on Monday and will be here again Saturday. I'm planning on making Chili. What can I say? He loves hot foods, and it's something red.

I gave him a PEANUTS card Monday of the little yellow Woodstock flying in and planting a heart on Snoopy's nose. And this morning I received a card that HE MADE FOR ME

much to my surprise. I thought that was rather romantic of him.

to everyone!

Peter6836 · « **Reply #18 on:** February 14, 2008, 09:05:16 am »

I am going to eat a chocolate bar with my Atripla tonight, and try to have sweet dreams of a handsome man in my bed. Maybe then I will not mind waking up in a sweat.

Peter

structuredjen · « **Reply #19 on:** February 14, 2008, 09:27:19 am »

We're going to the dirty show tonight

http://www.dirtyshow.org/

I'm thinking it might be my best valentines day idea yet!

Happy Valentine's Day!!
Jen

swede_dish · « **Reply #20 on:** February 14, 2008, 09:52:57 am »

I'm going to see some bands play at a local dive, then back home to sleep alone =/... My ex sent me a valentine and I sent it back. MUAH ha!

leatherman · « **Reply #21 on:** February 14, 2008, 09:57:17 am »

Quote from: leatherman on February 12, 2008, 11:02:50 pm

A friend of mine is traveling to SC this weekend and passing right through my old hometime in NC, so I'm catching a ride....
the other half has developed a fever!

well, I'm packed and ready to go and the other half is feeling much better. Just got a call from my friend and someone wrecked into her car this morning.

The other car is totaled, my friend's car only has a crack in the bumper, so the trip is still on!

I'm hoping that improves our odds now, and we'll avoid any accidents on the trip.

Happy Valentines Day!
mikie

swede_dish · « **Reply #22 on:** February 14, 2008, 10:02:04 am »

Quote from: leatherman on February 14, 2008, 09:57:17 am

well, I'm packed and ready to go and the other half is feeling much better. Just got a call from my friend and someone wrecked into her car this morning. The other car is totaled, my friend's car only has a crack in the bumper, so the trip is still on! I'm hoping that improves our odds now, and we'll avoid any accidents on the trip.

Happy Valentines Day!
mikie

Have a good trip!!!

Dachshund · « **Reply #23 on:** February 14, 2008, 10:12:47 am »

teehee....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9FP7if0-urQ

Queen Tokelove · « **Reply #24 on:** February 14, 2008, 01:35:45 pm »

Well, since Kevin is acting more like K-Fed, prolly not a damn thing. He did try to call but I missed it because I was washing dishes. The only excitement my ass will be receiving is a depo shot...

wishful · « **Reply #25 on:** February 14, 2008, 01:47:18 pm »

Quote from: Peter6836 on February 14, 2008, 09:05:16 am

I am going to eat a chocolate bar with my Atripla tonight, and try to have sweet dreams of a handsome man in my bed. Maybe then I will not mind waking up in a sweat.

Peter

Loving it!!!!!

i dunno what my yungin has planned for us tonight...this is our first together...i bought him a Calvin Klien Euphoria gift set, some thermals , a rocawear shirt, and cards n candy....

thunter34 · « **Reply #26 on:** February 14, 2008, 02:56:38 pm »

I'm hoping to spend some quality intimate time this evening with my main squeeze these days.

In other words, I'll probably end up watching net porn and masturbating a lot.

Same old same old.

$:-\$

fearless · « **Reply #27 on:** February 14, 2008, 05:15:16 pm »

Quote from: thunter34 on February 14, 2008, 02:56:38 pm

I'm hoping to spend some quality intimate time this evening with my main squeeze these days.

In other words, I'll probably end up watching net porn and masturbating a lot.

Same old same old.

$:-\$

Ah, Timmy.
If I wasn't on the other side of the world I'd be over there in a flash. But let me tell you, you showed me some great southern hospitality in my sleep last night

Oceanbeach · « **Reply #28 on:** February 14, 2008, 05:41:48 pm »

Well Hollystar,

Today is the day...

I went to the Post Office to find a bill from PG&E and the newsletter from Food for Thought, Sonoma Counties AIDS Food Bank but no cards or letters proclaiming any love.

The local Florist has not yet delivered any flowers

I did go to the convenience market to get a Hershey bar w/almonds

I went to the Safeway store, the clerk did not proclaim love, even though I spent over $50.00

At the auto parts store in Guerneville, the clerk sold me some motior oil and offered no love

I am still waiting for that call from Stevie Nicks $:-\$

From personal experience, I believe it is fair to say "V" day is only another day in paradise. Have the best day
Michael

Queen Tokelove · « **Reply #29 on:** February 14, 2008, 06:39:34 pm »

My ass couldn't even get no love from a depo shot, missed the appointment because the cab couldn't get here in time and I even called 2 hours in advance. K-Fed is still being a dick head, he left no messages apologizing for his bitchy message he left last night or candy and flowers. So now I am ready to break into singing "Hit the Road, Jack, Don't ya come back no more, no more, no more". Not to worry, I am not depressed about it in the least. He showed me his true colors and saved me the drama...Happy Valentine's Day...

BT65 · « **Reply #30 on:** February 14, 2008, 06:41:43 pm »

I did get a card from my case manager at the ASO. First time I've ever gotten a card from anyone there.

Oceanbeach · « **Reply #31 on:** February 14, 2008, 09:39:24 pm »

Quote from: Bettytacy on February 14, 2008, 06:41:43 pm

I did get a card from my case manager at the ASO. First time I've ever gotten a card from anyone there.

I get a birthday card from my ASO every year, signed by the entire staff. Makes me feel really special because it is always 3 to 4 weeks early

Have the best day
Michael
(who has learned today... Nothing says LOSER louder than NO NEW EMAIL from the gay pick-up site)

Oh Goody, Goody, I just got an email... boat repair labor rates have been increased to $75.00 per hour effective today. NOW, I feel loved

HollyStar · « **Reply #32 on:** February 14, 2008, 10:59:45 pm »

Happy Fucking Valentine's Day Everyone! Glad it's almost over?

Mine was good. A hell of a lot better than last year. And for those that didn't get any love, here is a

HUG

leatherman · « **Reply #33 on:** February 20, 2008, 01:39:05 am »

Quote from: leatherman on February 12, 2008, 11:02:50 pm

A friend of mine is traveling to SC this weekend and passing right through my old hometime in NC, so I'm catching a ride.

Just wanted everyone to know that we got back home safely from a nice trip down to the Carolinas. We both had a good time, although coming and going proved to be a little rough.

The trip started at 5 degrees with about 3.5 inches of snow on the ground and ice and slush covering the roads in town. Oh, and my friend being rear-ended in an accident! Luckily her car received very little damage and the trip was still on. The drive down was delightful and we chatted and caught up on the last few months.

Comparing notes later, both of us had good times on our respective visits with friends and family. Of course, the weather being in the upper 60s and mainly sunny most of the weekend sure helped after escaping Winter in Ohio!

However, the drive back turned out to be terrible and took us over 2 more hours to complete than the trip down. First, we ran into a traffic jam entering one of the tunnels in Virginia that delayed us nearly an hour and a half. We gained back some time afterwards as traffic was light through West Virgina. However as soon as we entered Ohio, we saw snow covering the ground and within miles we were suddenly in a whiteout! Nearly our whole trip through Ohio up to Canton was in blizzard conditions! Checking on a stranded vehicle, we nearly slide off the road into the center median ditch ourselves. I knew there was a reason I didn't usually visit the Carolinas and cross through the mountains during the Winter. LOL

Normally I try to get my trip pictures and stories posted on my blog quickly; but I had to put off doing my update yet because of a more pressing matter. My poor honey still wasn't any better from his recent bout of flu - matter of fact, he was worse! So the morning after my trip was spent in StatCare where they determined he has some sort of viral flu infection. We're pushing fluids, tylenol, cough med, and sleep now. Hopefully by tomorrow, his fever will finally break and he'll be feeling better.

I'm trying to not worry too much about him being sick but I'm flashing back to the nearly month-long fever that my late partner suffered before we found out we were postive. My current partner is negative and we have always been safe; but he hasn't tested again in a long time and I can't help but worry - it's what I've done best since my diagnosis. But worrying about my partner is probably a topic for another thread.

So Valentine's Day is still on hold for us for a while until my partner gets well.

Winiroo · « **Reply #34 on:** February 20, 2008, 11:54:44 am »

We exchanged cards and gifts. I got a bag of blowpops, a bag of Dove dark chocolates, a bag of Ghirardelli darks and a 20 questions music game. We waited till Saturday to go out to eat because I dont like crowds. We had a gift card from Christmas for Steak n Ale so we used that.

bear60 · « **Reply #35 on:** February 20, 2008, 04:26:11 pm »

Odly enough Kurt and I exchanged cards ( which we had purchased in Philly and had taken to Fla with us) while visiting our friends in Ft Lauderdale and they did not exchange cards. I thought it a bit strange that they didn't but hey...each to his own.

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