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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: hustler on March 27, 2008, 09:23:27 pm
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This is my story which has bugged me for the last 38 days..
On feb 19., i had protected sex with a prostitute in macau..the only problem is i licked her nipples, neck and french kissed her for about 5 mins.. with me having chapped lips due to the cold weather and one big mouth ulcer on the lips.. i know i have read that kissing is not a way of transmission..but i freaked out.. 10 days after i had a blood test and it was negative. 12 days after i had a lot of mouth ulcers come out, on the 13th day i had a lower fever which was gone after a few hours, i also feel like having diarhhea, also i was very stressed on tired the whole week. this fever like symptoms comes and goes like every two days during the night. then again on the 3rd week a lot of mouth ulcers came out.rashes also come out sometime, itches for about 10mins then goes away. today is the 38th day. only symptoms left are the mouth ulcers healing. pls guide me on this. thank you.
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Asong as you had protected sex and continue to have protected sex you have nothing to worry about, as for everything else there is no risk..please read the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) and follow the lessons on how HIV is and is not transmitted.
As to your other problems then you need to talk these over with your Doctor, they are not HIV related.
Jan
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Thanks annie..
This was my first time ever to have sex with someone else other than my girlfriend which we were both virgins the first time we did it. And very scared that i am the unlucky one to ever get infected this way..
should i get retested again? OR should i just forget about this?
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You don't need to test because you didn't put yourself at risk...just remember to read the lessons and educate yourself....and remember to use condoms at all times...NO EXCEPTIONS.
Jan
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Thank you very much ann for the quick reply. i just hope you're 100% correct. thank you.
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guys.. sorry for the trouble again..
today is my 51st day after exposure..but mouth ulcers still keeps on comning out of my gums and tongue..this is the first time that heaps of them keeps on coming out and on the gums and tongue..could this be ARS?
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Hustler,
You've already been told that you didn't have a risk, so how on earth could it be ARS?
Go see your doctor about your ulcers. Whatever is going on has nothing to do with hiv. This is not an hiv situation.
Ann
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Hi,
i had sex with a prostitute 3 weeks ago..this is what happend..at first we had a shower, nothing much happened there she just put soap on my body and thats all..after which she massaged me, then after we did the act. I wore a condom, she put it on me using her hands, as we were having sex, i licked her neck for about 10secnds but the bad part is i had mouth ulcers.., we finished a few minutes after. but as she went up, i recognized that my fluid was oozing out beneath the condom but my condom was still properly intact, she got some tissue wrapped it around my penis and pulled the condom out.AFter that, i had my shower agen using the soap she used. my problem is:
1. i saw some little pimple on her back, what if she had some on her neck which i kissed? But i didnt notice any
2. since my fluid was oozing out a little, couldnt have her fluid go in too?
3. when i took a shower, i used the soap she last used.
Pls. tell me what my risks are..i am really terrified for my life......i cant get it out of my mind..
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You were never at risk of contracting HIV.
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HIV is not passed through any of the activities you have reported. The only real risks for HIV transmission sexually are through unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse. But you wore a condom for that so you were not at risk. As long as you always wear a latex condom for either of those activities you will be well protected and the HIV status of the person you are with will not matter.
You are worrying needlessly. Get on with your life.
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Hustler,
I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.
If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.
Please also read through the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.
Ann