precum touch urethra

[ms060930]

I have read the other answers but can't find the same case, it will be appreciated if u can evaluate this
Im gay
About 20 days ago I have sex with a guy, it was a party,and some other guys there,He (Mr M) perform oral sex on other guy(Mr S) without ejaculate,then 1 or 2 minutes later he(Mr M) perform oral sex with me for about 2 minutes,when he do this, there are some precum (from MR S) in his mouth, and I feel a little confortable in my urethra,I guess he lap it,my question is
1: what is the risk with this behaver?is it more dangerous than NORMAL oral sex?

2: I have read that precum is low concentrate HIV, and I also know HIV dies quickly, then could HIV of precum survial in soliva 1 or 2 minutes or still INFECTION?If not,why peoele perform oral sex still dangerous even without ejaculate?

3:Is the behaver he lap my urethra INCREASE the risk?thank u

[Ann]

ms,

GETTING a blowjob is NOT a risk for hiv infection, no matter what sort of details you want to add.

GIVING a blowjob is a very, very low risk. It is rare for a person to become infected with hiv through giving blowjobs.

You got a blowjob. This is NOT a risk for hiv infection. If you're worried about the feelings in your penis, go get checked for the other sexually transmitted infections. Hiv is NOT a concern here.

Ann

[ms060930]

It was masturbation between 2 guy.He masturbated himself for a while without cum then masturbated me,I felt his finger touch my urethra and there are some precum in his hand,is it a low/no risk? Do urethra get HIV inside the body and outside the body have the same risk?What is the difference?Do I need to test
I do read the lsesson and I know masturbation is no risk,but the precum touched the urethra worried me

[Andy Velez]

This was a no risk situation. It was still essentially mutual masturbation and would be so even if you two were rubbing your penises together and ejaculated that way.

HIV is a fragile virus. It is not easily transmitted. The kind of incident you have described is one of the most common during sexual play. We would have known long before today if it was a risk. All sexual activity except by yourself could theoretically be risky. But in the real world of HIV, what you have described has never been documented as a means of transmission. And you aren't going to make history by becoming the first.

Read the lesson on this site about transmission if you haven't already done so. There's a link to it in the Welcome thread which opens this section. The main thing you have to be concerned about is that if you have intercourse, whoever is the insertive partner needs always to be wearing a condom.

This time out you don't have to worry and there's no need for testing.

Cheers,

[ms060930]

Your word is a great comfort.Can you guys explain why it is a NO risk even when precum get touched with urethra?I assume there may be some reasons like
1 the concentration of precum is low
2 the touch is brief
3 it is very unlikely that the precum will touch urethra
which is the major factor?

BTW,it is said in theBODY that (during the male-male masturbation) avoid use precum/cum as lube reduce the risk of introduce them to urethra, which means it is still POSSIBLE a risk of what I described.I do not want to challenge  you guys.I know if there is really risk you will tell.Just want a clarify

I do not want to boring you but a explain in science will be a bigger help

[Ann]

ms,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is mainly transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse. Mutual masturbation happens OUTSIDE the body where the virus becomes too damaged to be able to infect.

If you want to know what they say whatever it is they say at the Body, go ask them at the Body. We're not mind readers and have no idea why they say some of the things they do.

Mutual masturbation is NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not one person has ever become infected through masturbation and you will NOT be the first.

Ann