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Main Forums => Living With HIV => Topic started by: Dan J. on April 05, 2007, 11:05:54 am
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I received an email from Herman yesterday. He has been having high fevers 105+ so he will be in the hospital a few days. He didn't say much more than that. I don't know what is going on.
I hope he feels better soon.
Dan J.
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I hope he feels better soon and recovers quickly.....He is in my prayers.
Al
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Sending good thoughts, wishes, prayers...kisses, hugs that he feels better soon. Dan, thanks for letting us know.
Feel better soon Herman!
Christine
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I'm so sorry Hermie is so sick. I hope he feels better soon. I will keep him in my thoughts.
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Positive thoughts headed at Herminator.
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Hermie, can't have you sick bud. Think positive thoughts and get your little ass home.
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oh! best thoughts to him and a speedy recovery!
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Herman, Please get well soon my Friend...
Love
Eric
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come on, herman. Get better. You can do it. I know you can. I love you too much, Herman, for you to be in the hospital when it's a beautiful spring day outside.
robert
(whose going to dig in the dirt, just for you)
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Hermie:
Positive thoughts are going out to you for a speedy recovery!
RAB
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Hi Hermie,
If you can read this, know that you are in my thoughts. You are such a sweetie.
rob
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Herman
I'm sorry to hear you're in hospital. I hope you get well soon.
Best wishes
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Herman,
I hope you fell better soon! You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs
Teresa
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Hope you're soon feeling better, Hermie.
Sending good wishes your way,
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One of the first who has jumped in when i did emerged on this site.
Hermie wish you all the best ,and hang on !
There is a quite money to be spend and days to be lived.
Al
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Wishing you a speedy recovery, Hermie.
Tim
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THANK YOU ONE AND ALL FOR YOUR SHOW OF CONCERN AND LOVE !!
Herman, is home, as it is the Easter holidays overhere and there is no doctor competence to check him; ....... well more specifically his ass-hole :o
Those of you who knew what our dear man went thru' would not be surprise at all these manifestions coming forth due to layer after layers of events of the most trying nature.
Anyway, on a lighter note, i had suggested that he comes to Brussels, we go sell our asses at the central station , after which hitting the restro for a lobster dinner ( if you are not 18, kindly, do not read this ;) )
As i had reached my allocated time, Herman, is home, very tired and resting alot and besides having a voice of a retired 2 cents whore, HE IS OK.
I am sure he will be very touched by all these words of concern, kindly , have patience, he shall be back to reply you all soon !!
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besides having a voice of a retired 2 cents whore, HE IS OK.
Record it for the posterity :)
This is good news, i'm happy that things are going better :)
Milker.
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herman is in my thoughts and prayers
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Wishing him a speedy recovery and hoping for the best!
Mikey :)
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THANK YOU ONE AND ALL FOR YOUR SHOW OF CONCERN AND LOVE !!
Herman, is home, as it is the Easter holidays overhere and there is no doctor competence to check him; ....... well more specifically his ass-hole :o
Those of you who knew what our dear man went thru' would not be surprise at all these manifestions coming forth due to layer after layers of events of the most trying nature.
Anyway, on a lighter note, i had suggested that he comes to Brussels, we go sell our asses at the central station , after which hitting the restro for a lobster dinner ( if you are not 18, kindly, do not read this ;) )
As i had reached my allocated time, Herman, is home, very tired and resting alot and besides having a voice of a retired 2 cents whore, HE IS OK.
I am sure he will be very touched by all these words of concern, kindly , have patience, he shall be back to reply you all soon !!
:-* :-* :-*
Hi Siang. Good to hear that! Please hug him and tell him hi. A friend can help so much. You're proof honey. Thank you {Hug} 8)
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Glad to hear you are back home Herman and hope you are 100% again soon.
Chris
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Get well soon Hermie dearest, we can't have you running around looking like Joan Crawford now !!!
Get your rest and have some chicken soup !!!
Love, Jody
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Thanks for letting us know Dan..here's hoping for a speedy recovery Hermie, let us know how you are going when you are feeling a little better...thinking of you as always.
Hugs
Jan :-*
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Hermie, glad you're home, but keep watch on yourself! I've been very worried about you since last night.
Dan, my friend, thanks so much for posting this. I'm not sayin' who you care for, but you care for all of us, obviously. It was good of you to let us know about Herman.
Much love,
Creighton
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Hey Hermie,
There is lots of positive energy coming from me to you.
BIG HUGS,
Mark
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Hello Herman,
Hope you make a speedy recovery !! Get better soon...
Ray
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I hope you get well soon.
Good vibes for you man!
Alex
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Hermala,
Get better soon. Be assured that Matty the Damned is keeping you in his daily anxities.
MtD
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To Hermie,
A very cool guy with a big heart. Get well soon.
rob
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Thanks Siang for letting us know.....
Dear Herman,
I hope you feel much better soon, I am keeping you in my prayers. You are one of the sweetest men I have ever met, and I love you my friend......
hugs,
Alan
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feel better soon, herman - kate (http://www.smilies-and-more.de/pics/smilies/animals/003.gif)
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Hermie,
glad you are back home and feeling better.
Hugs,
John
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Hermie-
PM or e-mail me, doll. Hoping it all gets better soon-
Bisous,
B
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Hermie, let me know if you need a fanny rub anytime soon......
Love you Sweetie,
Eric
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gosh,, i hope he does well,,, anyone konw what his conditions were like before????
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Hi Herman
My thoughts are with you.
...the bear
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Herman not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I've worried since the 29th when you sent that PM and you told me about the fevers. I kept your PM to remind me to send positive thoughts your way everyday. I sure hope you've gotten a chance to see a doctor before the April 23rd you told me about.
I am glad to read Siang's post that you are back home.
Stay Strong!
Hugs
Jeff
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I dread to post this, as i had checked in with Herman this morning, he said he will post something, as he did not , i fear the worse !!
His voice did not sounded like it is worth more than 2 cents ; anyway, i can't make him laugh too much as his ass still hurts ::) one day , they will maybe stitch it up and give him the bag (wonder what my reward will be for this ??? he has already award me with the title : mother bitch , LOL )
What sucks it that , as a caring and giving and loving person, he just discover that love had turn out to be Medusa, he did not turn to stone fear not, it is just depression that had came in to claim it is price.
Well that is the bad news !! This helplessness infront of this fxxxxxx wall called depression is killing !!
I THINK WITH ALL OUR COLLECTIVE POSITIVE THOUGHTS MIRACLE CAN HAPPEN !! I really do want to believe that !! And Herman can believe in love, and love again and be on his two feet again and smile and laugh again, which was an important part of our frequent exchange.
Thank you one and all for reading and participating, sorry, i do not have good news :'(
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Herman,
Oh how difficult this post is for me.
I just want good things for you, and this is not good. Please be sure that you have my heart and that I have you in my thoughts probably more than you might imagine.
Be good, be safe, and above all be well.
HINT, there is no depression in the desert, only warmth, and love from this household.
Love,
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I think we should change the title to
Herman is not in the hospital !!
Tim, dear,
HINT, there is no deprivation of my dessert, i like mine long and warm, with two vanilla icecream, thank you ;D ;D
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Dearest family.
When life is cold and frying fevers lash out at you, relentlessly, it is good to know someone cares.
Thank you for all the get well wishes
And yes, thank you Dan for putting this up. Thanks water duck for your friendship.
Everything seems to take a turn for the worst in my life.
Even after my doctor told me to go out and do something nice for myself, I got robbed of my wallet while at the Chinese store, to treat myself.
My physical health is rapidly deteriorating. I am weak as a child. Scared for more pain in my Rectum.
Having been confronted with mental illness in love has shattered me even more.
I had to learn the hard way that love is no cure for that kind of disease.
Sleeping and crying is the only thing I do.
How much can a man take?
Just know that your kind words of encouragement touched me.
It is hard to find directions when your brain is fried.
love
Herman
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It is hard to find directions when your brain is fried.
Maybe one should stop looking for direction and start letting healing take place. It is often times confusing when we try too hard and forget to just stop, look and listen. Taking care of ourselves is often times very difficult when we are fucused on others.
Love you Herman, and hope you can find the time for you.
Love,
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Be Brave, Be Strong Hermie. You can get through this. Because it is what people like you do!
Thoughts, love and prayers are with you dear friend.
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Get Well soon Herman.
This is the last time I will post here. He needs this place more than I do.
Goodbye,
Dan
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It's good to hear from you again, Hermie.
I'm glad you're out of the hospital.
Just keep on taking care of yourself and bit by bit, day by day you'll get stronger.
Cheers,
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Hey Hermie:
Just focus of your rectum healing because that must be waay uncomfortable. Take away the physical pain and then work with the mental pain which I know you will overcome in a few weeks. Don't remain depressed for too long because life is too precious to waste on depression. Yes, it does feel bad and makes us very weak and without any purpose in life, but that is only because we are still in it's grasp. Slowly get out of that grasp and do what I know you love doing and that is enjoying life and loving what is ours to enjoy. Every time we have a "fall" in life, we just have to slowly get up, wipe off our knees, and move on. Nothing is more important that our health and maintaining it is a full time job. No one but ourselves makes our lives worth living. Having a partner, or not, friends or aquaintances, relatives and our jobs, are just things that are there to make things flow in our lifetime, but it all eventually leads up to ourselves and what we do to our lives to make it as long and entertaining as possible. Cheer up buddy, I still have that nude picture of you on that palm tree, who knows where, you never said, and I hope to see a second palm tree with you on it! Ha,ha. Get better soon... ;)
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Hermie.... Your a strong man... Everybody can see that... Please trust us when we say, "Your a strong man"... You WILL come through this... Stop looking down the road so much... I have felt your strength here, on the phone and in spirit... Keep it simple my Dear Friend...
Love,
Eric
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Water Duck just invited me for dinner tonight. Thank you , dearest friend.
It was just what I needed : someone that took care of me for the evening.
We had a nice glass of wine and a great dinner and I was able to relax between the coughing attacks.
Genuine friendship : a rare gift....
I know the recovery will be slow, but at least I dare look into the future again... with fragile eyes
love
Herman
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Hermie,
Nice to hear from you and hope that you will feel a lot better very soon.
Take care of yourself.
Comforting to know that you were in good hands ;).
With fondest thoughts. Alain :-*
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Hermie....That sounds like a wonderful way to spend the evening. Thanks for posting.
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Here's to your feeling better!!! Take good care!
Cheers,
Drew
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oh~~~welcome back herman!!!!
u r a nice guy.....hope u r much much better now~~~~~
JH