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Author Topic: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?  (Read 3222 times)

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Offline chadnla

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Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« on: December 11, 2006, 11:30:51 pm »
Act I
ok so saturday night i went to a xmas party across from my friend's place. just your normal (if there is such a thing) gay xmas party with drinks, food, etc.  my friend's BF (Hank) asks me if i thought anyone there was cute, so i pointed out a guy (i should learn not to do that). so Hank walks over and starts talking to the guy and next thing i know i'm being introduced, embarrassed (i'm shy at first).

ACT II
so we talk most of the night and hit it off really well.  to make a long story short i was going to crash at my friend's place as i didn't want to drive home after having some drinks (good decision).  somehow he ended up coming back to my friend's place with me (bad decision as you'll see in a moment).  thing is, he kind of invited himself but that's ok, we both agreed that neither of us wanted a one-night stand or sex. perfect because i wasn't in the mood to disclose.

ACT III
so we get to my friend's apt and lay down on the floor together fully clothed. we make out a little (kissing only, no below the waste touching) and all of a sudden he's like "i'm leaving, i don't feel comfortable. i think you just want to have sex". i was dumbfounded (and tired...i really wanted to cuddle and go to sleep). anyway he grabs his stuff and walks out and down the stairs, only to have me persuade him back in (bad decision #2). so we start over and at this point, i'm not even touching him, only laying on my back with my eyes shut. he then moves over to me and starts making out with me again, so i gave in (bad decision #3). a minute later, he wigs out again saying he doesn't want sex, he's not comfortable and even says "i'm afraid you might take advantage of me. i don't even know the guys that live here. they could be some freaks"

at that point i said "i think you should leave now" (best decision of the night). and he left

i kept thinking to myself "what a F***king psycho. ugh. as one friend put in a few years ago, you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince.  well i'm still waiting.......



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Offline Longislander

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2006, 11:36:04 pm »
yep,sounds like a psycho
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Offline chadnla

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #2 on: December 12, 2006, 12:06:27 am »
needless to say i deleted his number
"I do not believe in a fate that will fall on us no matter what we do. I do believe in a fate that will fall on us if we do nothing."

Offline Eldon

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #3 on: December 12, 2006, 12:51:36 am »
Hey Chad...

That was one weird experience. Perhaps he was uncomfortable with his surroundings or there could have been some other influences going on that you did not know about. A good decision on your part was made.


Happy Holidays!
« Last Edit: December 12, 2006, 12:53:36 am by Eldon »

Offline DanielMark

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #4 on: December 12, 2006, 06:56:38 am »
Only one comment to add:



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Offline Oh501sguy

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #5 on: December 12, 2006, 07:57:10 am »
At least he didn't bring coloring books on the first date and want to color.

I had that one...he was totally wierd.

Offline NightmareHall

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #6 on: December 12, 2006, 08:43:13 am »
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« Last Edit: December 14, 2006, 10:46:20 am by NightmareHall »

Offline ACinKC

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #7 on: December 12, 2006, 10:14:31 am »


Some frogs are just frogs.
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
RIDE!!!

Offline thunter34

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #8 on: December 12, 2006, 11:53:03 am »
That frog looks like Jabba the Hutt.
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline Javicho

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #9 on: December 12, 2006, 05:16:26 pm »
At least he didn't bring coloring books on the first date and want to color.

I had that one...he was totally wierd.


 ;D ;D ;D ;D that was a good one

Chad, good decision let those Psycho's away from you. You are too cute deserve better

Offline chadnla

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #10 on: December 12, 2006, 06:53:12 pm »
thanks for the support. and yes i think that is jabba but after the south beach diet
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Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: Saturday Night Psycho or Where Are the Normal Ones?
« Reply #11 on: December 12, 2006, 08:06:50 pm »
 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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