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Author Topic: HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE  (Read 3627 times)

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Offline sanitex

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HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE
« on: July 06, 2009, 11:34:57 pm »
HELLO GUYS
                   When it comes to hiv relevant i began to question myself how come this disease infected me paherps
i'm not that kind of a guy who use to have sex all the time or unprotected sex.last weekend saturday i went to club
with my friend though people are enjoying and haven fun i sat down on my chair thinking what's all this i cann't even
drink same like before they asked why you don't drink alchohol i said i had some stomach discomfort.

so my question are ,have you ever met a ladyl you like or she fall in love with you, then you start looking for excuses?

how can you feel if someone come to you and said i love you, would you mind if i like to be your girlfriend?

have you ever wakeup in the morning then started thinking how can you overcome all this issues ,like fear,depression,anxiety,lonelyness or even one day you find yourself been rejected by any of your friends who don't knew before that
your are hiv+.

pls read and give your advice or your contributions towards this weaken heart and minds.thanks
« Last Edit: July 07, 2009, 05:15:24 am by sanitex »
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Offline elf

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Re: HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE
« Reply #1 on: July 07, 2009, 04:50:00 am »
I try to dedicate more time to myself: alone but proudly alone.
I haven't dated anyone since my diagnosis (10months ago).
I hate being rejected and being discriminated...

HIV is extremely rare here where I live, which makes whole situation
a lot more difficult for me (people don't know anything about HIV,
all they know is that ''you're gonna die'', so it's like US in 1980/1)...

I still have hope..
I will definitely move to a more tolerant country (Spain or Belgium)
in near future...and return here every 6 months to get medication...

Offline sanitex

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Re: HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE
« Reply #2 on: July 07, 2009, 05:18:07 am »
hello elf
I will definitely move to a more tolerant country (Spain or Belgium)
in near future...and return here every 6 months to get medication...


              but were do you live as of now?you mention about changing your location
« Last Edit: July 07, 2009, 05:20:30 am by sanitex »
27/12/07 cd4 20 vl 1m
10/4 /08 cd4 86 vl 63
1/7/08  cd4 186 vl un
16/10/08 cd4 196 vl un
23/1/09 cd4 248 vl un
10/9/11 cd4 418 vl <40 %22
13/12/11 cd4 410 vl un 23%
24/2/12 cd4 545 vl un 26%
22/2/12 chge trv to Recovir-em.10/9/11 cd4 418 vl <40 %22
7/7/12 cd4 359 vl <40 22%
23/8/12 cd4 400 vl <40 23%,
testosterone test 7.5 ng/ml and
thyroid (TSH)1.32 ml.
13/12/2012 cd4 523 24% vl <40
18/3/2013 cd4  513  23% vl <40
03/8/2013 cd4 429 22% vl <40
13/11/2013 cd4 455 23% vl <40
Anti-HBs testquantitative Anti-HBs pos
Titer 16.95 mlu/ml <10.00
22/3/14 cd4 396 vl <40 24%
24/7/14 tevir
24/9/14 cd4 517 vl <40 22%
16/3/15 cd4 545 vl  85 24%
12/4/16 cd4 626 vl <40 25%
16/8/16 cd4 396 vl <40 27% changNVP/recovir-em 22/7
8/12/16 cd4 511 vl ud 23%
5/6/16 cd4 688 vl ud %27
17/9 /20  chng TLD

Offline mecch

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Re: HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE
« Reply #3 on: July 07, 2009, 11:04:53 am »
How is your health generally?
Probably you need never get really sick because of HIV, these days.
So it is an annoying chronic condition and a lot of people have prejudice against it, and you.

But your true friends will take it in stride.
And any lady who responds to you romantically will be responding to the WHOLE PACKAGE and HIV is just a part of that package.  If she can't deal with that part, good riddance. 

These forums are filled with people in poz.-poz and poz-neg relationships - there are plenty of people who can deal with it in a partner.

“From each, according to his ability; to each, according to his need” 1875 K Marx

Offline Inchlingblue

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Re: HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE
« Reply #4 on: July 07, 2009, 02:22:20 pm »

I still have hope..
I will definitely move to a more tolerant country (Spain or Belgium)
in near future...and return here every 6 months to get medication...

That sounds like an excellent plan, elf.

Isn't it all part of the EU as far as being able to get your meds wherever you move to, without having to go back every 6 months?

Offline sanitex

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Re: HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE
« Reply #5 on: July 09, 2009, 01:35:18 am »
That sounds like an excellent plan, elf.

Isn't it all part of the EU as far as being able to get your meds wherever you move to, without having to go back every 6 months?
27/12/07 cd4 20 vl 1m
10/4 /08 cd4 86 vl 63
1/7/08  cd4 186 vl un
16/10/08 cd4 196 vl un
23/1/09 cd4 248 vl un
10/9/11 cd4 418 vl <40 %22
13/12/11 cd4 410 vl un 23%
24/2/12 cd4 545 vl un 26%
22/2/12 chge trv to Recovir-em.10/9/11 cd4 418 vl <40 %22
7/7/12 cd4 359 vl <40 22%
23/8/12 cd4 400 vl <40 23%,
testosterone test 7.5 ng/ml and
thyroid (TSH)1.32 ml.
13/12/2012 cd4 523 24% vl <40
18/3/2013 cd4  513  23% vl <40
03/8/2013 cd4 429 22% vl <40
13/11/2013 cd4 455 23% vl <40
Anti-HBs testquantitative Anti-HBs pos
Titer 16.95 mlu/ml <10.00
22/3/14 cd4 396 vl <40 24%
24/7/14 tevir
24/9/14 cd4 517 vl <40 22%
16/3/15 cd4 545 vl  85 24%
12/4/16 cd4 626 vl <40 25%
16/8/16 cd4 396 vl <40 27% changNVP/recovir-em 22/7
8/12/16 cd4 511 vl ud 23%
5/6/16 cd4 688 vl ud %27
17/9 /20  chng TLD

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE
« Reply #6 on: July 09, 2009, 01:48:36 am »
That sounds like an excellent plan, elf.

Isn't it all part of the EU as far as being able to get your meds wherever you move to, without having to go back every 6 months?

I don't believe social services operate over national borders in the EU.  It's an economic union, not a sovereign one.  At any rate (and I may be wrong) I think the OP lives in Croatia which is not in the EU yet anyway.
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Offline mewithu

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Re: HOW DOES HIV EFFECT YOUR WHOLE LIFE
« Reply #7 on: July 09, 2009, 02:23:20 am »
Moving to another country is not as easy as it may sound. you will have to do a lot of research on that. I would find an aso and talk to them about this moving away thing. its a lot to consider my friend. Take care and i hope you find what you are going to do.
1997 is when I found out, being deathly ill. I had to go to the hospital due to extreme headache and fever. I fell coma like,  two months later weighing 95 pounds and in extreme pain and awoke to knowledge of Pancreatis, Cryptococcal Meningitis, Thrush,Severe Diarea,  Wasting, PCP pneumonia. No eating, only through tpn. Very sick, I was lucky I had good insurance with the company I worked for. I was in the hospital for three months that time. 
(2010 Now doing OK cd4=210  VL= < 75)
I have become resistant to many nukes and non nukes, Now on Reyataz, , Combivir. Working well for me not too many side effects.  I have the wasting syndrome, Fatigue  . Hard to deal with but believe it or not I have been through worse. Three Pulmonary Embolism's in my life. 2012 520 t's <20 V load

 


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