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Author Topic: what can i do???  (Read 2361 times)

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Offline Newlife

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what can i do???
« on: July 08, 2008, 04:28:45 pm »
hi guys , my partner and i did many times unsafe sex before and after i knew that am hiv+ . But my partner till now didn't have an hiv test!!!!.So what can i do to let him do the test?.
And one more question : is that possibe that my partner is still negatif (HOPE SO!) especially that my viral load before begining treatment was low (22,000/mm).
10x for replying . ???
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Offline woodshere

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Re: what can i do???
« Reply #1 on: July 08, 2008, 04:39:02 pm »
If I read this correctly you are wondering if your partner is neg, since you  you have had unsafe sex after you found out you were HIV+.  Well that is kinda like shutting the barn door after the cows get out. 

The answer to what can I do to let him do the test, simple go with him to get the test done.
"Let us give pubicity to HV/AIDS and not hide it..." "One of the things destroying people with AIDS is the stigma we attach to it."   Nelson Mandela

Offline BT65

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Re: what can i do???
« Reply #2 on: July 08, 2008, 04:58:47 pm »
Newlife, the only way you're going to know if your partner is HIV+ or not is to have him (or encourage him) to get tested.  No one on here can answer that question for you.
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