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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: WORRY008 on February 02, 2010, 07:41:13 am

Title: Scared and Crying alone
Post by: WORRY008 on February 02, 2010, 07:41:13 am
iam a 24 year old man from india,
2 Months ago, a  prostitute lady has sucked ( oral sex) my penis for 3 times (for about 1 min each) and i fingered Her for a while , but i have noticed there is not
cuts on my hands ,
But now  i feel very tired and if i eat something , i used to get vomited ,
and diarrhea too..
i have a little pain in the right side of the abdomen.
But i never had actual sex with her ...

i feared whether i will get the HIV virus for this activities?
Title: Re: Scared and Crying alone
Post by: Ann on February 02, 2010, 07:52:00 am
Worry,

You're worrying over nothing. Nothing you did or had done to you was risky for hiv infection.

Getting your dick sucked (getting a blowjob) is not a risk for hiv infection. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect. Not one person has ever been infected through a blowjob and you won't be the first.

Fingering is also not a risk for hiv infection. Not one person has ever been infected this way either.

If you feel unwell, see a doctor. It's nothing to do with hiv.


Ann
Title: Re: Scared and Crying alone
Post by: Andy Velez on February 02, 2010, 07:53:21 am
Whatever is going on with you physically has nothing to do with HIV. Getting sucked is not a risk for HIV transmission nor is fingering. In the entire history of the epidemic no man has ever been confirmed to have become infected through receiving oral sex. It's a safe bet to say that you aren't going to make history by becoming the first.

You need to discuss your symptoms with your doctor. They have nothing to do with HIV. There is no need for HIV testing. HIV is not your problem. Just be sure to always use condoms if you are having either vaginal or anal intercourse and you will be well protected against the sexual transmission of HIV. It really is that simple.

Cheers.  
Title: Re: Scared and Crying alone
Post by: WORRY008 on February 02, 2010, 08:02:04 am
Thankz for Encouraging me..

Should i need to take a hiv test...?


i have suffered almost a month of my act.. And really feel the pain of a  HIV +ve person.
So iam  going to join in an NGO to serve for the  hiv positive peoples...
Title: Re: Scared and Crying alone
Post by: Ann on February 02, 2010, 08:43:26 am
Worried,

Why take an hiv test when you have not been at risk? You do not need to test over getting blown or fingering.

And please, a month worrying about a blowjob does not equal "feeling the pain of a positive person". Cut the dramatics. You were never at risk.

Ann