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Off Topic Forums => Off Topic Forum => Topic started by: Mouse on August 01, 2008, 01:07:37 pm

Title: PANIC.
Post by: Mouse on August 01, 2008, 01:07:37 pm
Uh, so, the guy that I spoke to when I visited my school last just called my mom back and told her that I can only have a single room to myself with no bathroom.

When me and my sister visited and spoke to the guy he SHOWED US THE FUCKING SUITE I COULD HAVE. My doctor and my therapist sent  a letter out to the school telling them I required my own room with it's own bathroom. I thought this was under fucking control, and now he's telling me that he didn't say that was an option when that's utter bullshit and we were standing there when he spoke about it.

Now I'm fucking panicking. I am not dealing with the stress of getting naked, whether it's behind a door or not, in a room full of boys that are all going to be much bigger than me and they have no idea that I'm trans. I'm not doing it. I will flip the fuck out. I can't handle that stress EVERY SINGLE DAY I'm at school. No.
Title: Re: PANIC.
Post by: minismom on August 01, 2008, 04:51:50 pm
Does this guy have a boss?  I'd call him and explain the situation and the previous conversation you had.  Is this the only dorm that you can get into?  Are there others that you'll be able to get a room with your own bathroom? When are you supposed to move in?  The college must have someone who's in charge of all the dorms, maybe call him / her. 

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